Habit Building

  • Habits

    25 Tips for Women to Stay Motivated and Live a Healthy Lifestyle in 2025

    We’re nearly at the end of 2024, and we’re all out here promising ourselves that 2025 will be the year we nail a healthy lifestyle. A year of good habits, glowing skin, and feeling like the main character in a Jane Austen novel (but, you know, with better snacks and WiFi).

    But let’s be honest, keeping up the motivation for a healthy lifestyle is harder than trying to eat soup with a fork. Life gets busy, we get knackered, and suddenly it’s Netflix and takeaway every night. Sound familiar?

    Don’t worry. I’ve got you. Here are 25 tips for women to smash your 2025 goals and finally build the lifestyle habits that make you feel like the strong, healthy queen you truly are. Let’s do this!

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    1. Set a Goal That Excites You

    Not just “lose weight” or “get fit.” Pick something juicy, like smashing a 5K, learning to lift heavy, or nailing a new calisthenics move (I’m hoping 2025 is the year I finally do a pull-up!).

    Struggling to stick to your goals? Learn how to shift your mindset and achieve breakthrough results with the powerful ‘Be, Do, Have’ approach.

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    2. Write Down Your Why

    Get clear on why you want this. Better health? More energy? Feeling confident? Stick it on your fridge as a daily reminder.

    3. Start Small, Win Big

    Rome wasn’t built in a day, and your new healthy lifestyle habits won’t be either. Start with one or two easy habits to start—like drinking more water or walking 10 minutes a day.

    Starting small is key, but staying consistent matters most. Here are 5 ways to build habits that stick long-term.

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    4. Embrace Holistic Living

    Think beyond just exercise and food. Incorporate holistic lifestyle practices like mindfulness, stretching, or a bit of yoga to balance your physical wellness and healthy mind.

    5. Meal Prep Like a Boss

    Tired of last-minute takeaways? Prep simple meals packed with holistic nutrition to keep your energy up and your bank account happy.

    Meal prep feeling overwhelming? Follow this simple guide to plan your meals with ease and save time during the week.

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    6. Drink Your Water, Babe

    Yes, I know you’ve heard it before, but hydration is the foundation of better health tips. Two litres a day. No excuses.

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    7. Find Movement You Love

    Hate the gym? Don’t go! Dance, hike, paddleboard, or find a quirky women’s health and fitness class like aerial yoga. If it makes you smile, it’s a win.

    If workouts feel like a chore, it’s time to switch it up! Discover fun and joyful movement ideas that make exercise something to look forward to.

    8. Sort Out Your Sleep

    Your body can’t thrive without rest. (A very important one for me after struggling with postpartum insomnia earlier this year). Aim for 7-9 hours a night. No doom-scrolling in bed, alright?

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    9. Switch to a Holistic Diet

    Add more whole foods, fruits, and veg to your plate. No need to go full rabbit, but balance is key for healthy holistic living.

    Looking to build a balanced and sustainable diet? Dive into this guide to holistic nutrition for a healthier, more energised you.

    10. Make Self-Care Non-Negotiable

    Self-care activities aren’t just bubble baths (though they’re fab). Prioritise quiet time, skincare, or even an afternoon nap if you need it.

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    11. Stay Social and Supportive

    Surround yourself with women who inspire you to grow. Strong, healthy women build each other up!

    12. Track Your Wins

    Use a journal or an app to jot down your victories, big and small. Progress photos and non-scale victories (like better sleep or energy) are pure motivation gold.

    13. Ditch All-Or-Nothing Thinking

    Missed a workout? Ate pizza? So what? It’s called balance, darling. Move on and keep smashing it. Check out my post on ditching All-or-Nothing Thinking here!

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    14. Try Something New Every Month

    Keep the excitement alive! Whether it’s a fitness class, cooking a new recipe, or a crafty wellness inspiration project, change it up.

    15. Invest in Your Health

    Treat yourself to comfy trainers, a quality blender, or even a session with a women’s health care specialist. Your health is worth it.

    16. Snack Smart

    Keep these healthy life tips and tricks handy. Prep fruit, nuts, or protein bars so you’re not raiding the biscuit tin when hunger strikes.

    17. Focus on Physical Wellness

    Strengthen your body with a mix of cardio, strength training, and flexibility work. Think wellness fitness meets fun!

    Need a mindset shift to stay active? Discover how an active mindset can fuel your fitness and motivation to keep moving in this post.

    18. Be Kind to Your Ears

    Weird one, I know – but ear health matters too! Turn down the volume on your headphones and protect your precious hearing.

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    19. Celebrate the Small Stuff

    Did you walk instead of drive? Swap crisps for carrots? You’re smashing it, babe!

    20. Create a Morning Routine

    Start your day with positive vibes—hydrate, stretch, and eat a brekkie packed with holistic nutrition.

    21. Limit Screen Time

    Digital detoxes do wonders for a healthy mind. Step away from the socials and enjoy the present.

    22. Stay Curious About Wellness

    Read books, listen to podcasts, or try holistic medicine approaches to expand your knowledge of what is a healthy lifestyle.

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    23. Dance Like No One’s Watching

    Because it’s good for your mood and counts as cardio. Win-win.

    24. Create an Aesthetic That Inspires You

    Whether it’s a beautiful water bottle, cute gym gear, or an Insta-worthy meal, make your healthy lifestyle feel you.

    25. Keep Adjusting Your Goals

    Life changes, and so do you. Reassess and refine your goals to fit your evolving vision of a woman’s healthy lifestyle.

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    Final Thoughts

    Listen, love, you’ve got this. Nobody’s perfect, and that’s not the goal. A healthy lifestyle is about feeling good in your skin, staying motivated when life gets tough, and living a life you’re proud of.

    Pick a couple of tips, start today, and let 2025 be the year you absolutely smash it. I’m cheering for you every step of the way! 🚀

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  • Nutrition

    11 Ways to Incorporate Ancestral Nutrition Into Your Modern Lifestyle

    Let’s be honest: modern eating can be a bit of a mess. Breakfast? Usually a quick sugar rush in a wrapper. Dinner? Whatever you can fling in the microwave after a long day. The idea of a “meal plan” feels about as aesthetic as a soggy salad. But what if I told you that a few tweaks could have you eating foods that nourish your body, make your plate look Instagram-worthy, and leave you feeling more energised than a toddler at a soft play? Enter ancestral nutrition!

    Now, before you roll your eyes thinking I’m about to tell you to live on bone broth and berries, let’s clear the air: I don’t believe in restrictions.

    Life’s too short to say no to pizza night or that cheeky slice of cake. That’s where the 80/20 approach comes in—80% nourishing family meals and whole eating, 20% living your best life with chocolate in hand. Deal?

    Ready to see how we can make ancestral nutrition work in your modern life? Here are 10 easy (and dare I say fun) ways to dive in.

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    1. Start with an Ancestral Breakfast

    Gone are the days of sugary cereals ruling your mornings. Ancestral diet breakfast ideas focus on whole, unprocessed ingredients.

    Think eggs cooked with veggies, Greek yoghurt topped with nuts and berries, or even leftovers from dinner (because who made the rule that breakfast can’t be savoury?).

    Pro tip: Ancestral breakfasts keep you fuller for longer, so you’re not reaching for snacks mid-morning. Plus, they look proper aesthetic in your favourite bowl. Snap away.

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    2. Plan Dinner Like a Caveman (but with Wi-Fi)

    Dinners don’t need to be complicated to be delicious. Think roasted meats, hearty stews, or big veggie-packed salads.

    Ancestral diet meals focus on simple, wholesome ingredients. Bonus points if you make extra for tomorrow’s lunch!

    If you’re feeling fancy, try some ancestral eating recipes like bone broth or slow-cooked casseroles.

    They’re easy to make, taste divine, and scream “nourishing family meals.”

    3. Add Whole Foods to Every Meal

    No need to throw out everything in your pantry and start fresh. Just start adding more whole foods—like leafy greens, fresh fruits, nuts, and seeds—into your meals.

    It’s all about crowding out the processed stuff bit by bit.

    Swap out crisps for homemade sweet potato wedges or that sugary cereal bar for an apple with peanut butter. Tiny changes, big wins.

    Feeling inspired to get organised in the kitchen? Check out my easy meal planning guide to simplify your week and stay on track with your goals.

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    4. Make Your Plate Look Pretty

    Let’s talk aesthetics. Ancestral meal plans might be inspired by the Stone Age, but that doesn’t mean your plate has to look drab.

    Use fresh herbs, colourful veggies, and a drizzle of olive oil to turn your meal into a work of art.

    Because let’s face it, food tastes better when it looks good.

    Nourishing your body is just one part of the puzzle—keeping your mindset active and motivated is the other. Let’s talk about how to boost your fitness mindset to match your new eating habits in this post.

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    5. Ditch the ‘Snack Attack’ Mentality

    Our ancestors weren’t munching on crisps and chocolate bars every two hours. They ate proper meals and gave their bodies time to digest.

    This doesn’t mean you can’t snack (obviously!), but try structuring your day with solid meals.

    Focus on when to eat throughout the day rather than mindlessly grazing. An ancestral breakfast, a hearty lunch, and a dinner packed with whole foods eating will keep you sorted.

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    6. Get Stuck into Some Books

    Feeling overwhelmed?

    Grab a good book on ancestral nutrition for some inspo. The Ancestral Table is a fab one if you’re curious about traditional foods diets. Or browse through blogs for more ideas. Knowledge is power!

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    7. Keep It Flexible with the 80/20 Rule

    I’m not here to tell you to give up pizza, chocolate, or Friday-night takeaways. (Honestly, who has the energy for that?)

    Instead, aim for balance.

    Make 80% of your meals from wholesome, natural foods—think roasted chicken, veggie-packed soups, and nourishing family meals.

    Then enjoy your treats guilt-free. It’s all about progress, not perfection.

    Eating whole, nourishing foods isn’t just about ancestral nutrition—it’s a game-changer for sustainable weight loss too. If you’re curious about balancing health and happiness on your weight loss journey, this post is for you!

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    8. Say Goodbye to Ultra-Processed Stuff

    No, I’m not suggesting you bin your entire cupboard. But slowly removing processed foods from your diet can make a huge difference.

    Swap shop-bought biscuits for homemade ones or fizzy drinks for sparkling water with fresh lime.

    Small changes = big impact.

    Even when you’re eating whole, nourishing foods, weight loss can sometimes plateau. If you’re frustrated by no progress, this post might explain what’s going on.

    9. Experiment with Traditional Foods Diet Staples

    Want to spice things up? Try adding some traditional foods into your routine.

    Fermented goodies like sauerkraut and kimchi, organ meats, or ancient grains like quinoa can all bring variety to your meals. Plus, they’re nutrient powerhouses.

    10. Make It a Family Affair

    Nourishing family meals aren’t just good for your body; they’re a chance to reconnect around the dinner table. Cook together, share stories, and enjoy the process.

    It’s not just about the food—it’s about the experience.

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    11. Spice Up Your Life

    Our ancestors might not have had spice racks bursting with options, but you do—and it’s time to use them!

    Turmeric, garlic, ginger, paprika… these little jars of joy don’t just make your ancestral eating recipes taste divine; they’re packed with health benefits, too.

    Turmeric is a natural anti-inflammatory, ginger helps with digestion, and garlic is basically nature’s antibiotic.

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    Wrapping It Up

    So, there you have it. Incorporating ancestral nutrition into your life doesn’t mean living like a hunter-gatherer or giving up your favourite treats.

    It’s about balance, whole eating, and making small, sustainable changes.

    Start with an ancestral diet breakfast, try a few new recipes, and embrace the 80/20 rule.

    Before you know it, you’ll be whipping up nourishing family meals like a pro and feeling better than ever.

    Now go on, get cracking—you’ve got this!

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  • Habits

    How to Create a Weekend Routine to Become That Girl

    Imagine your ideal weekend routine – you wake up to a sparkling, calm space, then tackle a healthy morning routine.

    Next, you breeze through your daily routine planner, and finally, you feel like the absolute queen of organisation.

    Sounds dreamy, right? However, instead, you’re staring down a messy room and a pile of tasks you kept putting off.

    Not exactly That Girl vibes, is it?

    So now, let me be your weekend bestie and give you a kick in the right direction!

    Together, we’re about to turn your weekends into the ultimate reset – one that leaves you feeling energised, organised, and ready to take on Monday with confidence.

    Thus, say goodbye to the “I’ll do it later” mentality and hello to the weekend routine that’s going to change everything.

    Are you in? Let’s go!

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    1. Saturday Morning: Start with That Morning Routine

    Alright, first, grab your water bottle, set that alarm, and let’s get cracking! After all, That Girl doesn’t hit snooze a million times.

    Nope.

    She’s up and ready to start her day, making her morning routine for the weekend all about calm vibes and a healthy start.

    First Up: Hydrate and Meditate

    To start, begin your morning with a big glass of water (bonus points if you add lemon) and a quick meditation.

    In just five minutes, you can set your intentions for the weekend – what do you want to accomplish? How do you want to feel?

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    Morning Stretch or Yoga Session

    Next, this isn’t about breaking a sweat but instead about waking up your body.

    For example, you can try a gentle stretch or some yoga – it’s the healthy morning routine we all need to get the blood flowing.

    Cute Morning Routine List

    Then, make a list of things you’d love to do today, and keep it cute and simple.

    For instance, think about tidying up, maybe a little skincare, and some self-care moments. This way, you’ll start the day right!

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    2. Declutter and Clean: Perfect Day Routine Weekend

    After that refreshing start, it’s time to channel your inner Marie Kondo because this is the “clean” part of your clean morning routine.

    Since a fresh, organised space will make you feel like you can conquer anything, let’s get to it!

    Declutter Your Space

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    First, grab a bin bag and do a quick sweep of anything you don’t need or use.

    At this stage, this isn’t about deep cleaning every nook and cranny (unless that’s your vibe) – it’s about making your space feel lighter and fresher.

    Organise Key Areas

    Afterward, focus on your main spaces: the desk, the bathroom counter, and your wardrobe.

    By giving yourself a productive day checklist, you can tick off each area as you go.

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    Add Aesthetic Touches

    Finally, light a candle, add some fresh flowers, or rearrange a few items.

    Not only will this create an aesthetic weekend moment, but it will also make your space look cute!

    Creating an organised, calm space is just one piece of the puzzle. For tips on how to turn small changes into lasting habits, have a read of How to Create Habits That Stick—you’ll thank yourself later

    3. Self-Care Saturday Afternoon: Glow Up Weekend Vibes

    Now that your space is sparkling, it’s time to focus on YOU.

    Moreover, this is the fun part – a mini self-care day schedule just for you to relax, recharge, and feel fabulous.

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    First of all, break out your skincare routine! Then, pop on a face mask, exfoliate, and take a long shower or bath.

    Since this is all about feeling like a new woman, make it luxe and special.

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    Journal and Reflect

    Next, take a few minutes to jot down your thoughts, reflect on the past week, and write down what you’re grateful for.

    A little bit of self-reflection always goes a long way in a self-routine daily reset.

    Meal Prep

    Afterward, plan a cute, nourishing meal or snack for the day.

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    For example, think about colourful smoothie bowls or a beautiful salad – the kind of stuff that looks fab on Instagram but is even better IRL.

    Feeling too drained to go all out on self-care? Don’t worry—I’ve got you covered. Check out my post on 24 Self-Care Ideas for When You Have No Time or Energy for quick, no-fuss ways to recharge and feel human again.

    4. Sunday Morning: Perfect Weekend Morning Routine

    Sunday is all about setting yourself up for a productive week without actually working, you know?

    So, let’s get that perfect weekend morning routine going!

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    To begin with, set the tone early with a gentle start, whether that’s coffee on the sofa, a good book, or a walk outside. Therefore, enjoy the quiet, unhurried vibes.

    Things to Add to Your Daily Routine

    After that, think about small habits you can carry through the week.

    For instance, maybe it’s keeping your desk organised, doing a nightly tidy-up, or prepping your meals.

    As a result, these little changes = big impact!

    Plan for the Week Ahead

    Finally, use a daily routine planner to map out your top tasks and goals for the week.

    Hence, get clear on what you want to achieve and where you’ll focus your energy.

    5. Sunday Evening Wind-Down: Get Ready for Monday Like That Girl

    You’ve had a fab weekend, so let’s make sure you finish strong.

    As a result, no Sunday scaries here – just a relaxed, That Girl summer day routine kind of evening that leaves you feeling refreshed.

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    First, prep your bag, pick your outfit, and jot down any must-do’s for Monday.

    Since knowing you’re ready to go will help you actually enjoy Sunday night, you’ll fret less about the week ahead.

    Self-Care Final Touches

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    Next, skincare, cosy pyjamas, and maybe even a warm herbal tea.

    After all, treat yourself to a little pampering – you’ve earned it.

    Ready to take your self-care game to the next level? Check out my post on Stress Less, Glow More: The Ultimate Self-Care Basket for all the cosy, indulgent essentials to treat yourself like the queen you are.

    Early to Bed for a Fresh Start

    Finally, get to bed at a decent hour so you can hit Monday with all the energy of someone who’s nailed their weekend routine.

    Above all, aim for a proper night’s rest, and don’t forget to set your alarm for that healthy morning routine start!

    If you’re ready to stay consistent with your new habits, why not join my 75 Medium Challenge? It’s all about creating sustainable, feel-good routines, with a free printable tracker to help you stay on course.

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    Conclusion

    So there you have it, love – the weekend routine that’ll leave you feeling like That Girl, ready to take on whatever life throws at you.

    By turning your weekend into a mini-reset, you’re not only getting organised and prepped but also giving yourself the gift of calm, confidence, and a head start on the week.

    This isn’t just about looking good on the outside but also feeling fab on the inside too.

    Are you ready to make every weekend a glow-up? Let’s do this!

  • Fitness

    Ultimate 4-Week Wall Pilates Challenge For Beginner’s

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    Wall Pilates has been an absolute godsend for me on my postpartum fitness journey.

    I mean, when your core feels like a soggy biscuit and your back (hello, sciatica!) constantly reminds you that carrying a baby for nine months was no joke, you need something low-impact but highly effective.

    Enter Wall Pilates, stage left, saving my sanity and helping me feel like myself again—without any wild CrossFit shenanigans or bootcamp-style yelling.

    This 4-week Wall Pilates Challenge is going to get you moving and feeling strong. No matter where you’re starting from—beginner, postpartum, or just plain fed up—this challenge is your ticket to feeling fit and fierce.

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    What Is the 4-Week Wall Pilates Challenge?

    Think of it as your personal trainer—but without the cost, awkward gym encounters, or having to wrestle with TRX Pilates straps.

    This Wall Pilates workout plan is designed to work every inch of your body, all while using a trusty wall for support.

    Yes, even your wobbly bits.

    Especially your wobbly bits.

    Here’s how we’ll break it down:

    Week 1: Lay the foundation. Focus on form with beginner Pilates exercises like wall planks and gentle stretches. Perfect for total newbies and those of us who haven’t seen a yoga mat since…ever.

    Week 2: Build strength. Add some oomph with moves like leg lifts and thigh exercises to tone up and feel stronger.

    Week 3: Stability and balance. Time to channel your inner ballerina with moves that challenge your coordination (without the pressure of actually dancing).

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    Week 4: Full-body powerhouse. You’ll combine strength, stability, and flexibility to master full-body Pilates workouts like a pro.

    All you need is 15-30 minutes a day, a wall, and a pinch of determination.

    Trust me, even if you’re more “couch potato” than “Pilates princess,” this workout routine will feel doable.

    Why Wall Pilates Is Perfect for Beginners (and Everyone Else)

    Now, if you’re thinking, “Isn’t Pilates just for people with bendy bodies and expensive leggings?” let me stop you right there.

    Wall Pilates workouts for beginners, especially a personalised workout plan, are designed to meet you where you’re at.

    Support for beginners: The wall helps you maintain proper form, reducing the risk of injury. No Pilates instructor breathing down your neck shouting, “Engage your core!” because the wall’s got your back—literally.

    Low impact, big results: Ideal if your joints are creaky or if the thought of jumping into CrossFit workouts makes you cringe.

    Tones and slims: Want slimmer thighs or to finally see progress in your ab workouts? This is how we get there.

    At home convenience: This home Pilates workout plan is perfect for anyone short on time (or who doesn’t want to leave the house in this weather).

    Bonus: You’ll notice improvements in posture, flexibility, and strength faster than you can say, “Easy morning Pilates routine.”

    If you’re dreading workouts, it’s time to reframe your mindset. I share more on how to find joy in movement—even if you’re not naturally a fitness lover—in my post, ‘Enjoy Movement: How to Find Fun in Every Workout.’

    What You’ll Gain in Just 4 Weeks

    This challenge isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. Here’s what you can look forward to after just one month:

    Core confidence: Your abs will feel stronger (even if you can’t see them yet).

    Toned legs and thighs: Goodbye, wobble! The wall exercises will help sculpt and strengthen.

    Finding it tough to squeeze Pilates into your busy day? Trust me, I’ve been there. But making fitness a habit doesn’t have to feel like a chore. Check out my post, ‘10 Simple Tricks for Making Exercise a Daily Habit,’ for practical tips to fit workouts seamlessly into your lifestyle.

    Posture goals: Sitting tall at your desk will feel natural, not forced.

    Mental clarity: Pilates has this sneaky way of making your brain feel less foggy. Must be all that deep breathing.

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    The 4 Week Wall Pilates Challenge

    Foundation – Start with the Basics: Week 1

    Focus on form and getting comfortable with Wall Pilates.

    Complete these exercises 3-4 times a week:

    Wall Plank – Hold for 20 seconds (work up to 30 seconds). Place your forearms or hands on the wall, step your feet back, and form a straight line from head to heels. Engage your core and hold.

    Wall Sit – Hold for 15 seconds (build to 30 seconds). Stand with your back against the wall, lower into a seated position (knees at 90 degrees), and hold. Keep your back flat against the wall.

    Wall Leg Lifts – 10 reps per leg. Stand sideways to the wall, lightly hold it for balance, and lift your outer leg to the side. Lower slowly and repeat.

    Wall Chest Stretch – Hold for 20 seconds on each side. Place one hand on the wall at shoulder height, then gently turn your body away to feel a stretch in your chest. Hold and repeat on the other side.

    Tip: Focus on breathing and maintaining good posture.

    Feeling stuck or discouraged halfway through a challenge is normal, but it’s all about reframing those thoughts. I’ve written a whole post on ‘How to Stay Positive and Motivated on Your Fitness Journey,’ packed with tips to keep going when the going gets tough.

    Strength – Build It Up: Week 2

    Increase the intensity and add new moves. Do 3-4 times a week:

    Wall Plank with Shoulder Taps – 10 taps per side. Start in a wall plank, lift one hand to tap your opposite shoulder, then switch sides. Keep your hips stable.

    Wall Squat with Arm Raise – 10 reps (engage your core). Perform a wall sit, then slowly raise your arms overhead and lower them back down.

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    Wall Side Leg Lifts – 10 reps per leg. Same as Week 1, but add a pause at the top of each lift for an extra burn.

    Wall Hamstring Stretch – Hold for 20 seconds per leg. Place one foot on the wall at hip height or lower, keeping the other leg straight. Lean forward gently until you feel a stretch.

    Tip: You should feel the burn, but don’t overdo it. Rest if needed.

    Balance – Boost Your Stability: Week 3

    Add balance-focused moves for strength and coordination. Complete 4 times this week:

    Single-Leg Wall Sit – Hold for 10 seconds per leg. From a wall sit position, lift one leg off the ground and hold. Alternate legs.

    Wall Plank with Leg Lift – 8-10 reps per leg. In a wall plank position, lift one leg straight behind you, hold for a moment, then switch legs.

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    Wall Lunge – 10 reps per leg. Stand with your back to the wall, one foot forward and one foot back. Lower into a lunge, keeping your back knee close to the wall.

    Wall Side Stretch – Hold for 20 seconds each side. Stand sideways to the wall, reach your arm overhead toward the wall, and lean gently to feel a stretch in your side.

    Tip: Use the wall for support, but challenge yourself to rely less on it as you progress.

    Mastery – Full-Body Flow: Week 4

    Combine strength, balance, and flexibility into a full-body workout. Do 4-5 times this week:

    Wall Plank to Push-Up – 8-10 reps. Start in a wall plank, then bend your elbows to lower your chest toward the wall. Push back to plank.

    Wall Squat with Calf Raise – 10 reps. In a wall squat, lift your heels off the ground and lower them back down for a calf raise.

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    Wall Leg Lift with Pulses – 10 reps per leg. Perform a side leg lift (as in Week 1) but add small, controlled pulses at the top.

    Wall Forward Fold Stretch – Hold for 20-30 seconds. Stand facing the wall, hinge at the hips, and press your hands into the wall while stretching your back and hamstrings.

    Tip: Push yourself, but remember to listen to your body. You’re stronger than you think!

    If you’ve ever started a fitness routine full of enthusiasm, only to hit a wall (pun intended) a few weeks later, you’re not alone. The key isn’t motivation—it’s consistency. I talk more about this in my post, ‘Why Motivation (Alone) Doesn’t Work For Weight Loss,’ where I share how to rely less on willpower and more on sustainable habits.

    Tips for Sticking with the Challenge

    Alright, I won’t sugarcoat it—sticking to a new workout routine isn’t always easy. But you can do this! Here are my best tips to help you smash this one-month Pilates challenge:

    Schedule it in: Treat it like an unmissable meeting. No one skips Pilates with a wall.

    Start your day right: Pair your workout with a 7-second breakfast trick—a smoothie or yoghurt bowl to fuel your energy.

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    Track progress: Snap some “before” pics (even if they’re just for you). Seeing progress is the ultimate motivator.

    Celebrate small wins: Maybe it’s completing a full week, nailing a move from a Pilates workout video, or just sticking with it when you didn’t feel like it. Every step counts!

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    Ready to take your Pilates journey to the next level? Check out these must-read posts for beginner-friendly workouts, expert tips, and game-changing Pilates advice to help you build strength, improve flexibility, and stay consistent!

    Conclusion: You’re Stronger Than You Think!

    So, here we are at the end of the post, but the beginning of something amazing for you.

    This 4-Week Wall Pilates Challenge isn’t just about ticking off workouts—it’s about proving to yourself that you’re capable of showing up, putting in the effort, and feeling stronger, inside and out.

    Remember, it’s not about perfection; it’s about progress. Each wall plank, squat, and stretch brings you closer to the best version of yourself. And if you stumble or miss a day?

    Dust yourself off, get back to it, and keep going. Consistency, not perfection, is what changes lives.

    Now, download that free printable workout plan, clear some space by your favourite wall, and let’s get to it!

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  • Wellbeing

    10 Simple Gratitude Journaling Ideas for Beginners

    Hi There!

    Did you know practising gratitude can actually rewire your brain? Yep, it’s not just fluffy talk—science backs it up! Gratitude journaling can boost your mood, improve your sleep, and even help you manage stress.

    But let’s be real—life can feel like one never-ending to-do list. Ever felt so overwhelmed that the good stuff just flies under the radar?

    Same here.

    Hi, I’m Brooke—a mum, wellness enthusiast, and believer in small, intentional habits that transform your life. A few years ago, I lost over 80lbs and turned my life around, and now I’m all about self-growth, balanced living, and sustainable habits.

    Imagine this: Instead of waking up and going straight into hustle mode, you spend five minutes jotting down what you’re grateful for.

    Or, at the end of a chaotic day, you reflect on a win or a moment that made you smile. These small acts can help you feel more grounded, happier, and even more present in your life.

    So, in this post, I’ll share:

    • 10 simple gratitude journaling ideas, including ways to incorporate them into your daily routine.
    • Family-friendly tips, like how to start a gratitude jar or a family gratitude board.
    • Ideas for creating morning journals, selfcare journal prompts, and evening gratitude practices that stick.

    Grab your gratitude journal, or even just a spare notebook, and let’s get started!

    10 Simple Gratitude Journaling Ideas for Beginners

    1. The Rule of Three

    Write down three things you’re grateful for every single day. Easy-peasy. They can be as grand as “I’ve got a roof over my head” or as tiny as “My tea didn’t go cold before I drank it.”

    Pro tip: Can’t think of three? Start with just one. No pressure here. This can even become a shared habit with loved ones—create a family gratitude board where everyone adds their “three things” each day.

    If you’re looking to incorporate more positive habits into your life, gratitude journaling is a great place to start. It’s one of those small changes that can have a big impact—just like the other ideas I shared in my post, Daily Habits to Improve Your Life.

    2. Gratitude Alphabet

    This one’s a game and a challenge rolled into one. Go through the alphabet and jot down something you’re thankful for that starts with each letter.

    Example: A – Autumn walks, B – Bacon sarnies, C – Cosy blankets. It’s creative, fun, and perfect if you’re looking for something different to try with family or friends.

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    3. People Power

    List people you’re grateful for and why. Your best mate, your mum, the neighbour who feeds your cat when you’re away—write down why they matter. Bonus points if you actually tell them.

    Cheeky reminder: Gratitude spreads like butter on toast. The more you show it, the more it comes back to you. This could also be a lovely addition to a thankful wall idea in your home.

    4. Gratitude Snapshots

    Got a phone full of random photos? Pick one each day and write about why it makes you smile. It could be a picture of your pet, a family holiday, or that unforgettable brunch spread.

    Why it works: Combining visual memories with written reflections helps solidify the good times in your mind. Turn this into a creative activity by adding photos to a gratitude mood board.

    5. Gratitude for Challenges

    This one’s for the bold. Write about something tough but focus on what it taught you. Did juggling work and home life help you find better boundaries? Did a failure spark a new direction? Challenges often turn into the best lessons.

    Family twist: Share this idea around the dinner table and talk about what everyone learned from a recent challenge.

    Starting your day with gratitude can set the tone for everything else. For more ideas to get your morning off to a great start, take a peek at my post on Morning Journal Prompts.

    6. Today’s Win

    Big or small, write down one win from the day. Managed to tick something off your to-do list? Win. Cooked dinner instead of ordering takeaway? Double win.

    Real talk: Progress, not perfection, is what matters. If you want to get everyone involved, turn this into a gratitude jar activity (see idea 10!)—add wins on slips of paper and read them as a family at the end of the week.

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    7. Gratitude for Nature

    Take a moment to appreciate the natural world. Write about the colours of the sunrise, the crunch of autumn leaves underfoot, or even the sound of rain on your window.

    Why it’s special: Nature is a constant reminder to slow down and notice the beauty around us. This could even inspire a family nature walk followed by journaling time.

    8. Sensory Gratitude

    Focus on your five senses. What did you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch today that brought you joy? Maybe it was the warmth of your morning coffee, the sound of laughter, or the softness of your favourite jumper.

    Quick tip: This doubles as a mindfulness exercise. Two birds, one stone. Add it to your selfcare journal prompts to build a holistic journaling habit.

    9. Future Gratitude

    Manifest your dreams by writing about things you’re looking forward to as if they’ve already happened. “I’m so grateful for our upcoming family holiday” or “I’m thankful for my new job and the opportunities it brings.”

    Heads up: This isn’t just daydreaming—it’s a mindset shift. Pair it with a gratitude vision board idea to make it feel even more real.

    Gratitude journaling works brilliantly as part of a night-time routine too. If you’re winding down, check out my post on Night Journal Prompts for more ways to end your day on a positive note.

    10. Gratitude Jar

    This isn’t traditional gratitude journaling, but it’s too good not to include. Write down things you’re grateful for on slips of paper and pop them into a jar. On tough days, pull one out for an instant pick-me-up.

    DIY bonus: Make it a family tradition. Decorate the jar together and encourage everyone to add to it. By the end of the year, you’ll have a jar full of memories to look back on.

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    Wrapping It Up

    These gratitude journaling ideas aren’t about being perfect or writing epic essays. It’s about noticing the small moments and building a habit of positivity. Whether you’re using these ideas solo or turning them into family activities like a thankful board or gratitude jar, the key is to start.

    So, grab a notebook, and give one of these ideas a go. Small actions lead to big changes—you’ve got this!

    P.S. What’s one thing you’re grateful for today? Drop it in the comments and let’s spread those good vibes!

    Studies

    Gratitude journaling is more than just a feel-good activity—science shows it can bring tangible benefits to your mental and physical well-being. Let’s take a closer look at some of the research-backed reasons to grab that notebook and start jotting down your gratitude.

    Gratitude Boosts Mood and Reduces Stress

    Mood uplift and stress reduction: Gratitude journaling has been shown to improve mood and lower stress levels across various demographics. For instance, studies found that gratitude journaling helped reduce psychological distress and improve well-being in advanced cancer patients (Tan et al., 2021) and among college students dealing with academic pressures (Tolcher et al., 2022).

    Gratitude and resilience: Regular gratitude practices help reduce anxiety and depression and promote resilience, as evidenced by improved well-being in diverse groups, including parents coping with challenges and nursing students during the COVID-19 pandemic (Kim-Godwin, 2020), (Ko et al., 2021).

    Gratitude Improves Sleep

    Better sleep quality: Research has shown that gratitude journaling enhances sleep by reducing stress and promoting positive emotions. For example, gratitude interventions have been linked to better sleep among heart failure patients (Mills et al., 2015).

    Gratitude Enhances Overall Well-being

    Improved life satisfaction and happiness: Gratitude journaling significantly enhances life satisfaction and happiness. Students and adults who practiced gratitude regularly reported greater satisfaction with life and positive affect compared to those who didn’t (Tran et al., 2022), (Killen & Macaskill, 2015).

    Reduction in burnout and mental fatigue: Among healthcare professionals and nursing students, gratitude journaling reduced burnout and promoted emotional health, making it a powerful tool for those in high-stress environments (Cumella, 2022).

  • Wellbeing

    Self-Care Essentials: The Ultimate List for Every ‘That Girl’ Vibe!

    Welcome!

    Looking for some absolute self-care essentials? Here’s the thing: self-care isn’t about buying every product that TikTok says you need or following some perfect Pinterest checklist. It’s about you. Your needs, your vibe, and what actually makes you feel good—not what looks good on Instagram.

    You don’t need a million beauty products, a Pinterest-worthy care basket, or a full day to yourself (though I wouldn’t say no to that last one). Self-care can be as simple as a cup of tea, a five-minute journal session, or a proper soak in the bath.

    This self-care essentials list? It’s your wellness Wishlist—a bunch of ideas to inspire your next reset day or cosy evening. Think of it like a menu. Pick what speaks to you, ignore the rest, and make it your own. You don’t need everything, and you certainly don’t need to do it all.

    Ready to dive in? Let’s go!

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    For Ultimate Relaxation

    Sunday Self Care Ideas

    Why this works: There’s something about being warm and cosy that just screams I’ve got my life together, even if you’re still in your pyjamas at 3pm.

    Pampering Must-Haves

    How To Look Clean

    Cheeky tip: A pamper session doesn’t need to be hours-long. Ten minutes with a hair mask and a hot drink can do wonders for your mood.

    Stay Hydrated and Nourished

    Pregnancy Self Care

    Real talk: Self-care doesn’t mean ignoring your hunger while you scroll Instagram. Feed yourself. Your body will thank you.

    Mindfulness and Relaxation Goodies

    Daily Goals For Self Improvement

    Pro tip: Start small. Five minutes with a journal or a doodle can reset your day faster than you think.

    Move That Lovely Body

    Daily Routine Ideas For Women

    Reminder: Movement doesn’t have to mean burpees. A gentle stretch or a walk counts just as much.

    Entertainment and Inspiration

    • A feel-good book that makes you forget about everything else.
    • A playlist or podcast that sparks joy.
    • Cosy films or TV shows (yes, bingeing Gilmore Girls counts as self-care).
    • Games or puzzles for when you need something fun and low-pressure.

    No guilt allowed: If you need a break, you’re allowed to take one.

    Little Extra Self-Care Essentials That Bring Big Joy

    • Check out my post on building a self-care basket to help keep all your goodies in one place.
    • A small indoor plant to brighten up your space (and make you feel like a plant mum).
    • A cosy jumper you never want to take off.
    • Fairy lights to add a touch of magic to your evenings.
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    Final Pep Talk and Care Quotes

    Self-care is not about having all the stuff or being “perfect” at pampering. It’s about taking those moments to say, “Hey, I’m worth this.” So grab what you like from this Self Care list for women or make your own self improvement tips along the way. This isn’t a checklist to stress you out; it’s a gentle nudge to remind you to take care of yourself.

    So here’s a little care quote to leave you with: “Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential.” Now go and fill up your self care kit with whatever makes you feel amazing!

  • ADHD

    Kickstart Your Happy Hormones with This 30-Day Dopamine Boost Challenge

    Let’s get real for a second. When was the last time you felt actually excited about life? (Sorry if that’s dark 😬) I’m talking about that dopamine boost, buzzing-with-energy kind of excitement that makes you feel like you can take on anything.

    Struggling to remember? You’re not alone.

    Most of us are stuck on autopilot—scrolling through Instagram, half-watching Netflix, and feeling more meh than motivated. But here’s the thing: when you feel low on dopamine, everything feels harder.

    Focus is elusive, motivation is nonexistent, and even getting through the day feels like a slog.

    Dopamine steps in as your brain’s natural motivator—it’s the chemical that gives you those feel-good vibes, drives you to chase goals, and helps you power through tough tasks.

    Low dopamine levels make you feel flat, burnt out, and too comfortable staying in your comfort zone.

    Sound familiar?

    Let’s fix that.

    You don’t have to stay stuck in this cycle. Boost your dopamine levels and kickstart your happy hormones in just 30 days.

    What is Dopamine and Why Does It Matter?

    Dopamine is your brain’s hype man. It’s the reward chemical that fires up when you do something your brain thinks is awesome—like crushing a workout, finishing a project, or even just checking something off your to-do list.

    It’s that rush you feel when you’re on top of your game and killing it.

    Dopamine is what makes you feel good, motivated, and ready to tackle whatever comes your way.

    But when dopamine levels drop, things change. Suddenly, getting through the day feels like wading through mud.

    You’re tired, you can’t focus, and even the easiest tasks feel impossible.

    Low dopamine means low energy, zero motivation, and a whole lot of “I’ll do it tomorrow.” It’s basically burnout’s best friend.

    Here’s the good news: you can boost your dopamine naturally. Yep, no crazy supplements or weird hacks—just simple, everyday habits that will have your brain firing on all cylinders again.

    When your dopamine levels are where they should be, you’ll feel more focused, energised, and ready to take on whatever life throws at you. Plus, your mental and emotional health will get a serious upgrade.

    Win-win, right?

    Signs You Might Have Low Dopamine

    Do you feel like you’re dragging yourself through life on autopilot? Like no matter how hard you try, you just can’t get it together? That, my friend, might be low dopamine rearing its ugly head.

    Here’s how you can tell if your dopamine levels are running on empty:

    You can’t focus to save your life. No matter how much coffee you drink or how many times you stare at that to-do list, nothing’s happening. It’s like your brain is saying, “Yeah, no thanks.”

    Motivation? What’s that? Everything feels like a chore. You’re stuck in “meh” mode, and even the stuff you used to love isn’t sparking any joy.

    You’re tired… all the time. And not just the “I need a nap” kind of tired. This is that deep, bone-level exhaustion that no amount of sleep seems to fix.

    dopamine

    Mood swings for days. One minute you’re fine, the next you’re ready to snap at the smallest thing. Low dopamine can make your mood as unpredictable as British weather.

    You can’t remember the last time you truly enjoyed something. That sense of joy or excitement? Gone. Dopamine is the chemical that makes you chase rewarding experiences, and without it, life just feels a little… dull.

    If any of this is hitting a little too close to home, don’t worry—you’re not alone. The good news? You can fix it. And that’s where the 30-Day Dopamine Boost Challenge comes in.

    Let’s get those happy hormones flowing and kick burnout to the curb, shall we?

    How the 30-Day Dopamine Boost Challenge Will Help You Feel More Alive

    So, how does this challenge snap you out of your dopamine slump? Good question!

    Let’s get into it.

    dopamine challenge

    The 30-Day Dopamine Boost Challenge is all about giving your brain what it needs to start firing on all cylinders again.

    We’re talking about small, science-backed habits that’ll get your happy hormones buzzing and turn that burnout into pure energy.

    You won’t need to overhaul your whole life (who has time for that, anyway?), but these little tweaks are going to make a massive difference.

    Here’s what this challenge will do for you:

    Daily Dopamine Hits

    We’re not going big and crazy here. Instead, think of small, simple actions you can sprinkle throughout your day.

    These are the things that will naturally boost dopamine—like adding a quick burst of movement, swapping out your snack for a brain-boosting food, or squeezing in five minutes of mindfulness.

    daily habits to boost dopamine

    These dopamine hits add up and trust me, your brain’s gonna love it.

    Starting your day with low dopamine can make even getting out of bed feel like a challenge, especially if you have ADHD. But a simple, dopamine-boosting morning routine can change everything. Want to learn how to kickstart your day with energy and focus? Check out this low dopamine morning routine specifically designed for ADHD brains.

    Burnout Busters

    Feeling fried?

    Been running on empty for too long?

    This challenge hits the reset button on your energy and focus. With easy-to-follow actions to stop the burnout in its tracks and start refilling your mental fuel tank.

    You’ll notice more energy, better focus, and a lot less of that ‘I can’t even’ vibe.

    Happy Hormone Hacks

    Want to feel good? Of course you do.

    This challenge offers hacks that boost dopamine to keep you motivated, productive, and, let’s be honest, happier.

    We’re all about making things sustainable and easy, so you can actually stick with it.

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    Energy for Days

    Forget those days when you feel like a zombie just going through the motions. By the end of this challenge, you’ll know exactly how to maintain your energy—not just for a few hours, but for the entire day.

    These tools will help you maintain steady dopamine levels, so you can avoid the midday slump and feel alive again.

    This isn’t just another challenge—it’s your shortcut to feeling better, both mentally and physically. And the best part? It’s built to fit into your life, no matter how busy or burned out you feel right now.

    Let’s get those happy hormones flowing and start feeling like yourself again!

    One thing that can tank your dopamine levels and stop you from making progress? That all-or-nothing mindset. Thinking you have to do everything perfectly is a surefire way to burn out. If this sounds familiar, check out how all-or-nothing thinking might be holding you back from your weight loss goals—and what to do instead.

    Ready to Join the 30-Day Dopamine Boost Challenge?

    This is your chance to finally break free from burnout and start feeling like yourself again. It’s time to reclaim your energy, boost your focus, and start enjoying life to the fullest.

    Here’s what to do next:

    1. Sign up for the challenge by clicking here, or on the challenge page below.
    2. Check your inbox for your welcome email with all the details.
    3. Get started on your first dopamine-boosting task and let the transformation begin!

    The best part? This challenge is completely free—all you have to do is show up for yourself and commit to 30 days of feeling better.

    So, what are you waiting for? Join the challenge today and kickstart your journey to better mental health, more energy, and a happier you!

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    Conclusion: Take Action Now

    You’ve been running on empty for long enough. Now’s the time to take charge and give your brain the dopamine boost it needs to help you feel alive again. You deserve to feel good, energised, and ready to tackle whatever comes your way.

    Don’t wait. Sign up now for the 30-Day Dopamine Boost Challenge and start your transformation today!

    If you’re dealing with ADHD, you already know how challenging it can be to stay on track. Luckily, boosting your dopamine will make a huge difference in both your mental health and your weight loss journey. Want to learn more about how to increase dopamine with ADHD and lose weight? I’ve got you covered.

    Further Resources

    Studies

    Low Dopamine and Motivation: When dopamine levels are depleted or dopamine transport is impaired, individuals experience motivational dysfunctions such as fatigue and decreased effort, as seen in studies using animal models of depression and motivational dysfunction (Rotolo et al., 2020), (Yohn et al., 2016).

    Burnout and Dopamine: Burnout is often linked to dysfunctions in dopamine signalling, contributing to low energy, reduced motivation, and cognitive impairments. Research shows that low dopamine levels are related to fatigue and emotional exhaustion, as evidenced by altered dopamine-related hormone levels in burnout subjects (Tops et al., 2007).

    Dopamine’s Role in Reward and Effort: Dopamine release in brain areas like the nucleus accumbens plays a key role in regulating motivation and effort-based behaviours. When dopamine is blocked or reduced, individuals tend to avoid high-effort tasks in favour of low-effort ones, demonstrating how low dopamine impacts decision-making and motivation (Salamone et al., 2009).

    Boosting Dopamine and Motivation: Studies have shown that enhancing dopamine levels can improve motivation and effort exertion. For example, dopamine transporter inhibitors have been found to restore effort-related behaviours, which supports the idea that boosting dopamine can help individuals feel more motivated and focused (Kouhnavardi et al., 2022), (Randall et al., 2015).

  • Personal Development

    Growth Mindset: Why It’s Essential for Self-Motivation and Personal Improvement

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    Did you know that people with a growth mindset are more likely to achieve their goals than those who believe their abilities are fixed? It’s true. Now, let me ask you—have you ever found yourself feeling stuck, thinking, “This is just how I am”?

    Maybe you’ve tried to reach your goals but hit a wall of self-doubt or just felt like you weren’t getting anywhere.

    Think of your mindset like a muscle. If you’re not working it, it stays weak. But when you start training it, you get stronger, more resilient, and ready to take on anything.

    Right now, you might feel like you’re spinning your wheels, wondering if you’ll ever break free from laziness or procrastination. But imagine if, instead, you viewed every challenge as a stepping stone to success—a chance to grow and learn.

    That’s the power of a growth mindset.

    Before I discovered this, I struggled with staying motivated and used to beat myself up for not being perfect.

    But shifting my mindset changed everything. Now, I’m here to help you do the same.

    Ready to see how a small perspective shift can transform your personal growth and motivation? Let’s dive in!

    What is a Growth Mindset?

    A growth mindset is basically you telling yourself, “I can get better at this.”

    It’s the belief that no matter where you’re at right now, you can level up through effort, learning, and sheer determination.

    It’s being your own biggest cheerleader, even when you’re face-planting (we’ve all been there).

    Now, the opposite of this is a fixed mindset. That’s when you’re sitting there thinking, “I’m rubbish at this, always have been, always will be.” Talk about putting a cap on your own potential!

    With a fixed mindset, you’re convinced your abilities are set in stone, like you were born with a manual that says “Sorry, mate, no upgrades for you.”

    But here’s why it matters: A growth mindset is like a secret weapon for personal improvement.

    It helps you bounce back from failures, learn from mistakes, and keep moving forward, no matter how tough things get.

    When you believe you can improve, you’re unstoppable.

    Pro Tip: Next time you hit a roadblock, ask yourself if you’re approaching it with a growth mindset or a fixed one. Time to swap out “I can’t” for “I’m learning.” It’s a total game-changer.

    How a Growth Mindset Drives Self-Motivation

    Now, let’s talk motivation. With a growth mindset, you stop seeing challenges as giant roadblocks and start seeing them as stepping stones.

    It’s like turning every setback into a plot twist in your own success story.

    You’re not “failing”—you’re learning.

    And when you see it like that, you keep going, no matter how many bumps you hit.

    Having a growth mindset also means you’re basically a pro at persistence. You’re not quitting just because things get a bit tricky.

    No, you’re the one who digs deep, keeps pushing, and comes out stronger on the other side.

    It’s that mindset that fuels self-motivation in the long run because you know every tiny step forward counts.

    Let me give you a little example from my own life. When I first started weight training, I couldn’t lift a bag of potatoes without breaking a sweat.

    But instead of giving up and swearing off the gym forever, I kept at it. I knew I wasn’t going to become Wonder Woman overnight, but with each session, I could feel myself getting a little bit stronger.

    That’s the growth mindset at work, my friend.

    It’s about showing up, even when you’re knackered because you know every small effort leads to something bigger.

    Shifting to a Growth Mindset: Practical Strategies

    Alright, so how do you start thinking like a growth-minded legend?

    Reframe Failure as Feedback: Stop thinking of failure as the end of the world. It’s feedback, plain and simple. Missed the mark? No worries—now you know what doesn’t work. Learn from it and crack on.

    Celebrate Effort, Not Just Outcomes: We’re all guilty of getting fixated on the big wins, but here’s the secret sauce: celebrate the effort. Showing up, and putting in the work—that’s where the magic happens. The results will follow.

    Surround Yourself with Growth-Minded People: You know the saying, “You’re the average of the five people you hang around with the most”? Well, if you’re hanging out with Debbie Downers, it’s no wonder you’re feeling stuck. Get yourself around people who think big, who challenge themselves, and who will push you to do the same.

    Challenge Negative Self-Talk: That inner critic? Time to put it on mute. Whenever you hear yourself saying, “I can’t,” replace it with, “I’m learning how.” Start talking to yourself like you would a friend who’s having a rough time—encouragement, not judgment.

    Quick Exercise

    Think of a challenge you’ve faced recently. Now, take a second and ask yourself: How can I reframe this with a growth mindset? What can I learn from it? It’s all about shifting your perspective, love.

    Creating habits that last is key to making real progress. For tips on building habits, check out my post on creating habits that stick.

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    How a Growth Mindset Fuels Personal Improvement

    Here’s where it gets really good. A growth mindset is the key to unlocking constant personal improvement. When you’re always looking to learn, you’ll naturally become more adaptable and open to change.

    That’s what keeps you growing, whether it’s in your fitness journey, your career, or your relationships.

    And let’s talk about perfectionism for a sec. If you’re waiting for everything to be perfect before you start, you’re going to be waiting a long time, my friend.

    With a growth mindset, you embrace progress over perfection.

    It’s about moving forward, even if you’re taking baby steps. You don’t need to have all the answers to get started.

    Finally, as you keep putting in the effort and seeing growth, your confidence will go through the roof.

    When you know you can improve and get better, you start to see yourself in a whole new light.

    You’ll realise there are no limits to what you can achieve, as long as you keep showing up.

    Key Takeaway: A growth mindset is the ultimate confidence boost. It helps you break free from the idea that you’re stuck where you are, reminding you that with every step forward, you’re getting closer to your goals. Step by step, you’re creating the best version of yourself.

    Manifesting Success with a Growth Mindset

    Look, I know it’s easy to get caught up in wanting immediate results but trust me, living life to the fullest comes from embracing the process of growth.

    You don’t have to have it all figured out to make progress.

    What matters is that you’re constantly moving forward, learning, and getting better.

    Action Plan

    • Start with one growth mindset activity a day—whether it’s a self-reflection or setting a small, achievable goal.
    • Use some daily discipline quotes or affirmations to stay focused and remind yourself that growth is a marathon, not a sprint.
    • And don’t forget: You’ve got this. Progress over perfection, always.

    Want a roadmap for your growth? Check out my personal development plan template for an easy-to-follow guide.

    Growth Mindset Affirmations: Fuel Your Success

    Let’s be real—sometimes, no matter how much we know we should be adopting a growth mindset, our brains decide to throw a little pity party.

    That’s where growth mindset affirmations come in.

    And trust me, they work.

    Saying them out loud (yep, even when it feels silly) can rewire your thinking and give you that extra boost to keep going.

    Now, don’t get me wrong—affirmations aren’t some magic spell that instantly makes things happen (if only, right?). But what they do is fuel the action.

    They shift your mindset just enough to push you to take that next step.

    It’s all about building the belief that you can improve, and with that belief comes the motivation to actually do something about it.

    Here are some of my favourites that help me push through those “I can’t do this” moments:

    • “I am constantly learning and growing.”
      Perfect for those days when you feel stuck. Remind yourself that even baby steps count towards reaching your goals.
    • “Every setback is a lesson, not a failure.”
      This one’s a banger for reframing failure into something positive—remember, every bump in the road is part of your personal development plan.
    • “I can improve with effort and dedication.”
      Keeps you focused on manifesting goals by putting in the hard work, even when it feels tough.
    • “Challenges are opportunities for growth.”
      A little reminder that those tricky situations are where the magic happens.
    • “I am capable of achieving my successful mindset.”
      This is a daily dose of self-belief—perfect for boosting confidence and building that unstoppable mindset.

    Mindset Hacks for Weight Loss Success: Must-Read Posts

    Struggling with motivation? Stuck in self-doubt? These posts will rewire your mindset, boost confidence, and keep you on track!

    Conclusion

    In the end, developing a growth mindset is the key to unlocking personal improvement and keeping your self-motivation strong.

    We’ve explored how shifting your mindset helps you embrace challenges, learn from failures, and move closer to your goals.

    These are practical strategies that can transform how you approach everything from your health to your career.

    Why does this matter? Without a growth mindset, you’re stuck in a fixed way of thinking, which limits your potential.

    But when you focus on growth, you allow room for self-discipline, persistence, and success.

    It’s not about perfection—it’s about progress and learning along the way.

    So, what’s next? Start small—maybe with a growth mindset affirmation or writing down one goal you want to work towards.

    Every small action builds momentum, and before you know it, you’ll see real change.

    Now, ask yourself: what’s one thing you can do today to begin living with a growth mindset?

    Drop a comment below or share this post if you’re ready to start your growth journey!

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    Further Resources

    Studies

    Growth mindset as a foundation for achievement: Dr. Carol Dweck’s research highlights that a growth mindset—viewing abilities as developable—encourages individuals to embrace challenges, persist through setbacks, and view effort as a pathway to mastery. This perspective fosters resilience and a love for learning, supporting personal improvement and achievement (Worek & Micari, 2016).

    Diverse impact of growth and fixed mindsets on goals: A study found that individuals with a growth mindset are likely to set mastery-oriented goals, which correlate with higher persistence and self-motivation, whereas those with a fixed mindset may focus on performance goals and avoid challenges. Growth-oriented students generally performed better, indicating that a growth mindset aids in long-term success (Yu & McLellan, 2020).

    A growth mindset fosters enjoyment and effort in challenging tasks: Research with college students demonstrated that holding a growth mindset positively impacts effort exerted, enjoyment, and self-efficacy, which translates to higher perceived performance and creativity. This effect supports the idea that a growth mindset enables individuals to view challenges as growth opportunities rather than obstacles (Puente‐Díaz & Cavazos‐Arroyo, 2017).

    Academic and personal resilience: A growth mindset has also been linked to greater adaptability, self-efficacy, and reduced anxiety in students. This adaptability is essential in helping students navigate setbacks with a constructive outlook, further validating the mindset’s role in personal and academic resilience (Zarrinabadi et al., 2021).

  • Wellbeing

    Cosy Nights: The Ultimate Fall Evening Routine for Relaxation

    Let’s talk about something we all need but rarely get: proper, guilt-free ‘me time.’ And no, I don’t mean scrolling through your phone in bed until your eyes burn (Guilty). I’m talking about an actual, soul-soothing fall evening routine that’ll help you unwind and recharge.

    Sounds like a dream, right?

    But trust me, it’s more doable than you think, even if life’s throwing everything it’s got at you.

    Whether you’re juggling work, family, or just the general chaos of life (hello, adulting!), autumn is the perfect season to slow down and focus on yourself.

    So, let’s build the ultimate cosy fall evening routine that’ll leave you feeling relaxed, recharged, and maybe even a little bit smug about how well you’re looking after yourself.

    Here’s how you can do it:

    fall evening routine

    Step 1: Set the Scene

    First things first, if your evenings currently look like you racing around trying to get everything done – STOP.

    The laundry can wait.

    Your emails? They’ll still be there in the morning.

    The first step in winding down is creating space to actually breathe. Maybe for you, that’s when the house finally goes quiet, or it’s when you get home after a long day at work.

    For me, it all starts once I’ve finished the day’s must-dos. I’ve got a baby at home, so when he’s down for the night, that’s my signal to switch gears.

    The scene setting starts with lighting a few fall candle scents. Think pumpkin spice, cinnamon, and vanilla—those cosy, nostalgic autumn vibes instantly put me in a relaxed state.

    Then, it’s time for a little lavender-scented lotion to add to the cosy feel, creating a spa-like atmosphere in my own bedroom. This combination is key to my cosy night routine aesthetic.

    Whether it’s baby bedtime or just the moment the world slows down, make this your ‘me time’ marker.

    fall candle scents

    Step 2: Autumn Skincare & Self-Care

    Next up, let’s talk about skincare because autumn calls for a bit of extra TLC for our skin. My fall skincare routine is non-negotiable. Cooler weather can wreak havoc on my dry skin, so I focus on nourishing it with hydrating serums and moisturisers.

    I love the calming ritual of applying these products before bed, and it’s a crucial part of my nighttime routine.

    In the spirit of keeping things cosy and calm, I also like to spend a few minutes with my gratitude diary. It’s a simple but effective way to end the day on a positive note.

    By writing down three things I’m thankful for, I shift my mindset from any stress or chaos to what really matters. Plus, it’s such an easy way to practice mindfulness.

    This small habit is a key part of my slow evening aesthetic and helps me wind down in the most meaningful way.

    As you’re winding down and getting into the flow of your evening routine, why not take it up a notch with a little extra self-care? Creating a Self-Care Boo Basket is a fun, autumn-inspired way to treat yourself and make those cosy nights even more special. If you’re looking for more inspiration, my autumn self-care ideas are just the thing to help you embrace the cosy vibes.

    Step 3: Swap the Phone for Something Creative

    Let’s be real, mindlessly scrolling isn’t exactly relaxing – it’s more like getting trapped in a vortex of distractions. So, instead of falling into the phone trap, why not do something creative that actually helps you unwind?

    Personally, I’ve become a huge fan of adult colouring books. It’s such a simple activity, but there’s something so calming about it.

    I sit down with my favourite colouring book (this one is PERFECT for spooky season and these are my current fave pens), grab a hot chocolate, and just zone out.

    There’s no pressure to be perfect, just the joy of colouring inside (or outside) the lines.

    Find something that lets your mind slow down – it could be drawing, crocheting, or even journaling.

    The key is to make it low-pressure and enjoyable.

    Step 4: Embrace the Bath Life

    If there’s one thing that screams ‘autumn relaxation,’ it’s a long, warm bath. And look, I get it – sometimes life is so hectic that squeezing in a bath feels like an indulgence.

    fall evening routine

    But listen, you’ve got to take those moments when you can. When you finally slide into that tub, it’s like the world disappears for a bit, and that’s priceless.

    For me, it’s even more essential these days because my lower back’s been giving me grief since having a baby (the joys of childbirth, right?).

    So, after a bath, I make sure to get in some back stretches and even treat myself to my heated back massager for 15 minutes. It’s like hitting the reset button on my body and my brain.

    A bath, paired with some relaxing autumn skincare products like bath salts or essential oils, is my favourite way to unwind.

    Step 5: Cosy Gaming or Comfort Shows

    Now, this is where you really get to relax. Once you’ve done all the essential wind-down activities, it’s time for a little indulgence.

    Personally, I’m all about cosy gaming. There’s something so soothing about the gentle pace of games like Wylde Flowers, Stardew Valley, or Go-Go Town.

    No stress, no high-pressure missions. Just pure, laid-back fun where you can lose yourself in a simpler world for an hour.

    But, if gaming’s not your thing, let’s talk comfort shows. Autumn is the time for those binge-worthy, feel-good series and films that make you want to curl up with a blanket and a cuppa.

    My go-to autumn shows? Gilmore Girls (because who doesn’t love Stars Hollow in the fall?), Buffy the Vampire Slayer (a little bit of nostalgia, a lot of slaying), and The Vampire Diaries (because broody vampires just feel right this season).

    And don’t get me started on films – if it’s not Lord of the Rings, Twilight or Hocus Pocus gracing my screen, I’m not doing autumn right.

    Whether you’re gaming or catching up on comfort TV, the point here is to let yourself enjoy something easy, familiar, and cosy.

    No pressure, just pure relaxation.

    If you’re loving the cosy vibes of an autumn evening routine, why not keep the autumn magic going all season long? My Fall Bucket List is packed with 31 cosy ideas to fully embrace everything autumn has to offer.

    Step 6: Finish with a Good Book

    autumn evening routine

    Let’s be honest – nothing beats ending your day with a good book. And autumn is the perfect time to curl up with a magical or mysterious read.

    Here are some of my favourite autumn books that are absolutely perfect for those cosy evening aesthetic vibes:

    Perfect Autumn Reads

    The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches by Sangu Mandanna: Think a little bit of magic mixed with friendship and finding where you belong. Perfect for an autumn evening with a cuppa.

    Weyward by Emilia Hart: This one’s not so much “cosy”, it’s more “female-rage coded”. It’s dark, atmospheric, and has a powerful message about womanhood and nature.

    House of Hollow by Krystal Sutherland: This one’s on the darker side – an eerie, haunting story about three sisters with a supernatural past.

    Caraval by Stephanie Garber: It’s magical but with a dark edge – perfect for autumn.

    The Only Purple House in Town by Ann Aguirre: It’s all about finding your tribe and embracing your weirdness.

    Step 7: Keep it Simple and Consistent

    Now, look, I’m not saying you’re going to nail your fall evening routine every single night.

    Life happens.

    Sometimes you’re going to be too tired, or the chores will call, or maybe you’ll just need to crash.

    But here’s the thing – creating a consistent, simple fall evening routine like this can make a huge difference over time.

    Evening Routine Aesthetic Photo

    It’s not about doing everything perfectly every night, but about building moments of calm and joy into your evenings, whenever you can.

    On the nights when the baby wakes up, or you’re running behind on work, I still try to squeeze in one small act of self-care – whether it’s 10 minutes with my back massager or even just a few pages of a good book.

    Because those small moments add up, and they matter.

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    Just like a solid evening routine helps you unwind and recharge, a morning routine sets the tone for the day. If you haven’t already, be sure to check out my post on creating the perfect fall morning routine to kickstart your day with the same cosy, intentional vibes.

    After all, balance is all about how we start and end our days.

    You Deserve This Time – So Take It

    So, there you have it – your ultimate guide to a cosy fall evening routine.

    The secret?

    Prioritising yourself.

    Because at the end of the day, you can’t pour from an empty cup, and autumn is the perfect season to slow down, get cosy, and recharge.

    Even when it feels impossible, or you’re tempted to just tackle that to-do list, remind yourself that you deserve a bit of time just for you because you do.

    By incorporating elements of organisation, skincare, relaxation, and a little creativity into your evening, you can create the best nighttime routine that fits your lifestyle.

    Now go run that bath, grab your book (or turn on Gilmore Girls), and take that ‘me time’ – you’ve earned it.

  • Habits

    Cosy Up Your Fall Morning Routine with These 13 Simple Habits

    Your fall morning routine can either be magical or… well, an excuse to stay under the duvet forever.

    But we’re not here for that kind of vibe.

    We’re here to embrace those crisp, cool mornings and turn them into opportunities to take care of ourselves, build habits that make us feel fab, and set the tone for the rest of the day.

    Whether you’re working on your morning self-care routine or just looking for fall morning routine ideas, these 13 simple habits will get you feeling cosy, energised, and ready to slay the day.

    SEE MY COMPLETE GUIDE ON HABIT FORMATION > Mastering Habit Formation and Behaviour Change For Your Health

    fall morning routine

    1. Open the windows for some fresh air

    Fall self-care starts with the simple things. One of the easiest ways to feel refreshed in the morning? Open those windows, no matter how chilly it is outside.

    Let the cool autumn breeze in, and suddenly, you’re feeling more awake and alive. It’s a super simple habit, but trust me, it works wonders.

    Pro Tip: Pair this with your first cup of coffee or tea and take a moment to breathe it all in.

    2. Sip on something warm (pumpkin spice, anyone?)

    No fall morning routine is complete without a warm drink in hand. Whether you’re team coffee or prefer a soothing tea, make it a little ritual.

    Take that moment for yourself to savour the warmth.

    And if you want to lean into the season? Pumpkin spice all the way!

    Pro Tip: Get creative with your morning drinks! Try something new like spiced chai or hot apple cider.

    fall morning routine pumpkin spice latte

    3. Stretch it out

    Look, your body’s been resting all night (hopefully), so give it a good stretch in the morning.

    Fall mornings can make you feel a bit sluggish, but a quick stretch is the perfect way to wake everything up.

    It doesn’t have to be a full-on yoga session—just a few gentle moves to get the blood flowing.

    Pro Tip: Stretch while the kettle’s boiling. It’s a small habit, but it makes a big difference.

    This season can be an invitation to slow down, and sometimes, all we need is a gentle nudge to prioritise ourselves. For a few autumn-inspired self-care ideas that are all about slowing down, check out this post.

    4. Brisk walks for the win

    If you’ve got time, take a brisk walk outside. Autumn mornings are perfect for a quick stroll.

    The air is crisp, the leaves are turning, and you’ll feel like you’ve already accomplished something.

    Plus, it’s a fab way to get your morning self-care in before the day gets too hectic.

    Your morning workout is only as smooth as your prep. Don’t waste time hunting for gear—check out my list of gym bag essentials to get everything packed and ready the night before

    5. Layer up for ultimate comfort

    Cosy mornings are all about the layers. Whether you’re staying home or heading out, wrap yourself up in your favourite jumper, scarf, or fluffy socks.

    The goal?

    To feel as comfy as possible while tackling your morning routine ideas.

    For the ultimate cosy fall morning, why not treat yourself to a little extra self-care? Check out my guide on building the perfect self-care Boo Basket—it’s the best way to add some spooky fun and relaxation to your autumn routine!

    6. Candles, because why not?

    Candles just scream cosy, don’t they? Light a couple of autumn-scented candles (like this one!) as part of your fall morning routine and instantly feel the vibe shift.

    You’ve gone from “meh” to magical with one flick of a lighter.

    Pro Tip: Go for scents like cinnamon, clove, or vanilla to really bring those autumn vibes into your space.

    autumn candle cosy

    7. Take a deep breath (and actually enjoy it)

    Fall self-care isn’t just about the external stuff. It’s about taking a moment to breathe and connect with yourself.

    Whether you’re into mindfulness or just need a minute of quiet, taking a deep breath of that crisp autumn air is like a reset button for your brain.

    Pro Tip: Stand by the window or step outside and take five slow, deep breaths. It’s the easiest way to centre yourself for the day ahead.

    8. Embrace slow mornings

    Here’s the thing: not every morning has to be rushed. Especially in the fall, it’s nice to have a routine that lets you slow down a bit.

    Whether it’s spending a few extra minutes in bed with your coffee or taking your time with breakfast, give yourself permission to slow it down.

    Pro Tip: Don’t guilt yourself for taking it easy. It’s part of your morning self-care routine!

    9. Journal it out

    Writing down your thoughts in the morning is a brilliant way to clear your head and get ready for the day.

    Whether it’s a quick brain dump or setting an intention for the day, journaling in the morning is like mental decluttering.

    Pro Tip: Keep it simple. You don’t need to write a novel—just jot down whatever comes to mind, even if it’s random.

    10. Create a cosy nook

    Every cosy fall morning routine needs a little sanctuary. Find a corner of your home that’s just for you—a spot where you can enjoy your coffee, read a book, or simply relax.

    Bonus points for fairy lights, fluffy blankets, and a good book.

    Pro Tip: Make your nook as inviting as possible. This is your space for unwinding and recharging.

    cosy fall book nook fall morning routine

    11. Set a mini goal for the morning

    Mornings are a great time to tick off a small win before the day gets hectic. It could be something as simple as drinking a glass of water, responding to an email, or reading a chapter of a book.

    Mini goals help you start the day feeling accomplished.

    Check out these Morning Journal Prompts to start your day with intention!

    12. Check in with yourself

    Self-care means more than just face masks (although, yes please). Take a moment in the morning to check in with yourself emotionally.

    How are you feeling? What do you need today?

    A quick check-in can make all the difference in how you approach your day.

    Pro Tip: Try asking yourself, “What do I need today?” and make that your focus.

    13. Laugh off the chaos

    Not every morning is going to go perfectly, and that’s totally fine. The key is to laugh off the little hiccups—whether it’s a coffee spill or a bad hair day.

    Laughing at the chaos will instantly turn your morning around and set a positive tone for the rest of the day.

    Before we conclude the perfect fall morning routine, why not embrace the full autumn magic? Check out my fall bucket list for cosy ideas like pumpkin picking and roasting chestnuts to make the most of the season!

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    Conclusion

    There you have it—13 simple habits to create the ultimate cosy fall morning routine. Whether you’re a morning person or not, these small tweaks will make your mornings feel a little more special and a lot more productive.

    So, what are you waiting for? Go grab that cup of coffee and make your mornings count!