Daily routines

  • Wellbeing

    Stress Less, Glow More: The Ultimate Self-Care Basket

    If you’re feeling a bit frazzled and like life’s taken a one-way trip to chaos town, it’s time we sorted you out with something that’ll work wonders: a self-care basket.

    Think of it as your personal self-care station, filled with all the bits and bobs to help you unwind, relax, and feel like the boss you are – no need for luxury spa days or complicated routines.

    Creating a self-care basket isn’t just a cute idea; it’s an absolute necessity. Whether you’re someone who loves a good pamper session or just needs a quick pick-me-up during a hectic week, having a dedicated care basket can make all the difference.

    It’s your go-to comfort basket care package, ready to help you hit the reset button whenever life gets a bit too much.

    self-care basket

    Step 1: Get Your Aesthetic Right

    Now, let’s talk about the self-care aesthetic. It may not be the most important thing in the world but it can change how you feel when you see it.

    And I’m a sucker for pretty things.

    Do you want something that screams “cosy” with soft pastel colours? Or maybe you’re into those chic self-care aesthetic ideas that make you feel like a Pinterest queen?

    Either way, pick a basket, box, or even a cute tote bag that feels like a treat just to look at.

    After all, we want it to be as visually appealing as it is functional, right?

    Pro Tip: Go with something simple but pretty – like a wicker basket with a bit of flair, or even a repurposed gift box. I started with an old DIY self-care gift basket I received ages ago. And hey, it did the job!

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    Sometimes, it’s easy to forget that self-care isn’t just about big, glamorous rituals but those tiny, seasonal adjustments that bring us joy. 🍂 If autumn is calling for a little cosy recharge, check out my favourite autumn self-care ideas for inspiration.

    Step 2: Self-Love Products and Essentials

    Alright, now comes the fun part – filling your basket with all your favourite self-love products. And let’s keep it real here – it doesn’t have to be expensive or elaborate.

    We’re talking about those small luxuries that make a big impact when you need a moment to breathe.

    Some self-care item ideas for your basket could include:

    Pamper kit, like a lovely face mask or bath salts.

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    A pair of cosy socks (I swear, nothing beats that fuzzy-sock feeling).

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    Calming tea blend or a favourite snack (Chocolate, anyone?).

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    A soothing candle for when you need to relax.

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    Step 3: Create a Self-Care Checklist

    Before you dive in and start using your new goodies, it’s time to set up a checklist for self-care.

    Why? Because we’re all guilty of buying the lovely things but never actually using them. (I see you, face mask I bought six months ago!)

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    A self-care checklist keeps you accountable. Here’s a little starter idea:

    • Light the candle
    • Put on those fluffy socks
    • Brew your favourite tea
    • Take a few deep breaths and just be

    You could even throw in a quote or affirmation card or two to inspire you when you’re having a rough day. Something like “Take it one step at a time” or “You’ve got this” can work wonders.

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    Step 4: Customise for Your Needs

    Let’s not forget the importance of customising your basket to fit you (or whoever you’re gifting it to).

    Add in things that help YOU relax – maybe it’s a puzzle, a great book, or even a mini journal.

    You could also jazz it up for the festive season with DIY self-care Christmas gifts. Throw in some seasonal treats, a cosy blanket, or anything that makes it feel extra special.

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    If you’re looking for a fun and seasonal twist, why not create a Self-Care Boo Basket? Packed with all your favourite autumn goodies, it’s the perfect way to relax and enjoy the cosy vibes of the season. Check out my post on how to make the ultimate Self-Care Boo Basket for a bit of autumn magic!

    Step 5: The Gift That Keeps on Giving

    Now, I know we’re talking about taking care of yourself, but let’s not forget that these self-care baskets make brilliant gifts too.

    If you’ve got a friend or loved one going through a tough time, putting together a DIY self-care gift basket is a thoughtful way to show them you care – think bath bombs, calming teas, or even personalised notes. Check out this post for the Ultimate Self Care gift giving guide.

    And don’t forget, there’s no rule that says self-care baskets are just for women. Everyone can use a bit of pampering, so if it’s a self-care basket for men, you can create a basket that fits their vibe.

    Step 6: Grounding Your Mind – The Mental Health Side of Self-Care

    Self-care isn’t just about pampering your body – it’s about nurturing your mind too.

    Let’s face it, life can be overwhelming, and sometimes we all feel like we’re teetering on the edge of a meltdown.

    That’s why I always recommend including grounding items in your self-care basket to help bring you back to the present when things get a bit too much. Trust me, this stuff works wonders when anxiety starts creeping in.

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    Grounding is all about using your senses to reconnect with the here and now, pulling your mind away from the chaos and back to the moment. Here’s how to do it, and what you can pop into your basket for each sense:

    1. Touch – Something to Hold or Squeeze

    One of the easiest ways to ground yourself is through touch. When you’re feeling stressed, physically holding onto something can make you feel more secure and present.

    That’s why I like to have a small self-care kit of tactile items in my basket. Here are some ideas:

    A smooth stone or crystal that fits in the palm of your hand.

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    A stress ball or fidget toy (bonus if it’s squishy or makes a satisfying noise).

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    These items are great for grounding because they give your hands something to focus on, which helps to calm your racing thoughts.

    I’ve got a smooth pebble in my basket that I picked up on a beach holiday. Whenever I feel my anxiety bubbling up, I hold onto it and let its cool, smooth texture bring me back to the present.

    2. Sight – Something to Look At

    When your mind’s all over the place, it helps to have something calming to look at.

    You could add items to your selfcare basket that give your eyes something soothing to focus on:

    • A small picture or postcard of a place that makes you feel safe or happy.
    • Calming colours – maybe a candle in a relaxing hue or a colouring book.
    • Affirmation cards with positive reminders.

    For me, I’ve got a little picture of my favourite spot in nature tucked into my basket. Looking at it helps me remember the calmness of that place, and it makes me take a deep breath and chill.

    What about you? Is there a photo or item that instantly brings you peace?

    3. Smell – Something to Sniff

    Scent is one of the most powerful senses for grounding. Adding something with a soothing smell to your basket can instantly bring you back to the moment. Think:

    A small bottle of essential oil (Lavender spray is great for calming).

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    A scented candle with a fragrance you love.

    A bag of dried lavender or other calming herbs.

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    a bottle of massage oil sitting on a yellow surface

    I’ve got a small roller ball in my basket that I roll on my pulse points when I’m feeling stressed.

    The scent instantly brings me back to centre, like a deep breath for my mind.

    4. Sound – Something to Listen To

    Sound can also be incredibly grounding. Sometimes, when everything feels overwhelming, it helps to drown out the noise of your thoughts with something soothing:

    • A mini playlist of calming music or nature sounds (pop your earbuds in and zone out for a bit).
    • A wind chime or small bell (something soft and pleasant to hear).
    • A guided meditation track or a podcast that makes you feel more connected to yourself.

    If you’ve never tried grounding through sound, I highly recommend putting on some nature sounds like rain or ocean waves.

    I’ve got a playlist of calming tunes that I pull up whenever I need a mental reset. What sounds help you relax?

    5. Taste – Something to Savour

    Taste is a slightly unusual one, but it’s just as important!

    Having a comforting snack or drink in your basket can help you reconnect with your senses and the present moment. Think about adding:

    • A few favourite sweets or a piece of dark chocolate (the kind you can savour slowly).
    • A small herbal tea bag for when you need to feel grounded.
    • Even something simple like a mint can help!

    I always have a little square of chocolate in my self-care basket. It’s my go-to grounding snack because the act of slowly eating it brings my focus back to the moment.

    It’s like a tiny mindfulness practice, but tastier!

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    Summary (Because I Know You Love a Good Recap)

    • Pamper Essentials: Face masks, bath salts, cosy socks, candles, and chocolate.
    • Self-Love Products: Favourite tea, soft blanket, stress ball, or a journal.
    • Grounding Items:
      • Touch: Smooth stones, fidget toys, soft fabrics.
      • Sight: Calming images, and affirmation cards.
      • Smell: Essential oils, scented candles, or dried lavender.
      • Sound: Calming playlists, nature sounds, guided meditations.
      • Taste: Comfort snacks like dark chocolate or herbal tea.

    These items create a mix of pampering and mental grounding to help you feel calm, recharged, and in control.

    Building a self-care basket is one step towards creating better habits for yourself. For even more ideas on how to improve your daily routine, take a peek at my post on 10 Daily Habits to Improve Your Life.

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    Conclusion

    At the end of the day, creating your own self-care basket is about making sure you’ve got everything you need to recharge when life gets overwhelming. It’s simple, it’s personal, and it’s totally doable.

    Plus, it doesn’t hurt to make it look good, because who doesn’t love a bit of self-care aesthetic magic?

    So whether you’re building it for yourself or as a gift for someone special, remember: a little care goes a long way.

    Now, get cracking on your self-care station and treat yourself (or a loved one) to some well-deserved TLC.

    You’ve earned it!

  • Wellbeing

    Cosy Nights: The Ultimate Fall Evening Routine for Relaxation

    Let’s talk about something we all need but rarely get: proper, guilt-free ‘me time.’ And no, I don’t mean scrolling through your phone in bed until your eyes burn (Guilty). I’m talking about an actual, soul-soothing fall evening routine that’ll help you unwind and recharge.

    Sounds like a dream, right?

    But trust me, it’s more doable than you think, even if life’s throwing everything it’s got at you.

    Whether you’re juggling work, family, or just the general chaos of life (hello, adulting!), autumn is the perfect season to slow down and focus on yourself.

    So, let’s build the ultimate cosy fall evening routine that’ll leave you feeling relaxed, recharged, and maybe even a little bit smug about how well you’re looking after yourself.

    Here’s how you can do it:

    fall evening routine

    Step 1: Set the Scene

    First things first, if your evenings currently look like you racing around trying to get everything done – STOP.

    The laundry can wait.

    Your emails? They’ll still be there in the morning.

    The first step in winding down is creating space to actually breathe. Maybe for you, that’s when the house finally goes quiet, or it’s when you get home after a long day at work.

    For me, it all starts once I’ve finished the day’s must-dos. I’ve got a baby at home, so when he’s down for the night, that’s my signal to switch gears.

    The scene setting starts with lighting a few fall candle scents. Think pumpkin spice, cinnamon, and vanilla—those cosy, nostalgic autumn vibes instantly put me in a relaxed state.

    Then, it’s time for a little lavender-scented lotion to add to the cosy feel, creating a spa-like atmosphere in my own bedroom. This combination is key to my cosy night routine aesthetic.

    Whether it’s baby bedtime or just the moment the world slows down, make this your ‘me time’ marker.

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    Step 2: Autumn Skincare & Self-Care

    Next up, let’s talk about skincare because autumn calls for a bit of extra TLC for our skin. My fall skincare routine is non-negotiable. Cooler weather can wreak havoc on my dry skin, so I focus on nourishing it with hydrating serums and moisturisers.

    I love the calming ritual of applying these products before bed, and it’s a crucial part of my nighttime routine.

    In the spirit of keeping things cosy and calm, I also like to spend a few minutes with my gratitude diary. It’s a simple but effective way to end the day on a positive note.

    By writing down three things I’m thankful for, I shift my mindset from any stress or chaos to what really matters. Plus, it’s such an easy way to practice mindfulness.

    This small habit is a key part of my slow evening aesthetic and helps me wind down in the most meaningful way.

    As you’re winding down and getting into the flow of your evening routine, why not take it up a notch with a little extra self-care? Creating a Self-Care Boo Basket is a fun, autumn-inspired way to treat yourself and make those cosy nights even more special. If you’re looking for more inspiration, my autumn self-care ideas are just the thing to help you embrace the cosy vibes.

    Step 3: Swap the Phone for Something Creative

    Let’s be real, mindlessly scrolling isn’t exactly relaxing – it’s more like getting trapped in a vortex of distractions. So, instead of falling into the phone trap, why not do something creative that actually helps you unwind?

    Personally, I’ve become a huge fan of adult colouring books. It’s such a simple activity, but there’s something so calming about it.

    I sit down with my favourite colouring book (this one is PERFECT for spooky season and these are my current fave pens), grab a hot chocolate, and just zone out.

    There’s no pressure to be perfect, just the joy of colouring inside (or outside) the lines.

    Find something that lets your mind slow down – it could be drawing, crocheting, or even journaling.

    The key is to make it low-pressure and enjoyable.

    Step 4: Embrace the Bath Life

    If there’s one thing that screams ‘autumn relaxation,’ it’s a long, warm bath. And look, I get it – sometimes life is so hectic that squeezing in a bath feels like an indulgence.

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    But listen, you’ve got to take those moments when you can. When you finally slide into that tub, it’s like the world disappears for a bit, and that’s priceless.

    For me, it’s even more essential these days because my lower back’s been giving me grief since having a baby (the joys of childbirth, right?).

    So, after a bath, I make sure to get in some back stretches and even treat myself to my heated back massager for 15 minutes. It’s like hitting the reset button on my body and my brain.

    A bath, paired with some relaxing autumn skincare products like bath salts or essential oils, is my favourite way to unwind.

    Step 5: Cosy Gaming or Comfort Shows

    Now, this is where you really get to relax. Once you’ve done all the essential wind-down activities, it’s time for a little indulgence.

    Personally, I’m all about cosy gaming. There’s something so soothing about the gentle pace of games like Wylde Flowers, Stardew Valley, or Go-Go Town.

    No stress, no high-pressure missions. Just pure, laid-back fun where you can lose yourself in a simpler world for an hour.

    But, if gaming’s not your thing, let’s talk comfort shows. Autumn is the time for those binge-worthy, feel-good series and films that make you want to curl up with a blanket and a cuppa.

    My go-to autumn shows? Gilmore Girls (because who doesn’t love Stars Hollow in the fall?), Buffy the Vampire Slayer (a little bit of nostalgia, a lot of slaying), and The Vampire Diaries (because broody vampires just feel right this season).

    And don’t get me started on films – if it’s not Lord of the Rings, Twilight or Hocus Pocus gracing my screen, I’m not doing autumn right.

    Whether you’re gaming or catching up on comfort TV, the point here is to let yourself enjoy something easy, familiar, and cosy.

    No pressure, just pure relaxation.

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    Step 6: Finish with a Good Book

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    Let’s be honest – nothing beats ending your day with a good book. And autumn is the perfect time to curl up with a magical or mysterious read.

    Here are some of my favourite autumn books that are absolutely perfect for those cosy evening aesthetic vibes:

    Perfect Autumn Reads

    The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches by Sangu Mandanna: Think a little bit of magic mixed with friendship and finding where you belong. Perfect for an autumn evening with a cuppa.

    Weyward by Emilia Hart: This one’s not so much “cosy”, it’s more “female-rage coded”. It’s dark, atmospheric, and has a powerful message about womanhood and nature.

    House of Hollow by Krystal Sutherland: This one’s on the darker side – an eerie, haunting story about three sisters with a supernatural past.

    Caraval by Stephanie Garber: It’s magical but with a dark edge – perfect for autumn.

    The Only Purple House in Town by Ann Aguirre: It’s all about finding your tribe and embracing your weirdness.

    Step 7: Keep it Simple and Consistent

    Now, look, I’m not saying you’re going to nail your fall evening routine every single night.

    Life happens.

    Sometimes you’re going to be too tired, or the chores will call, or maybe you’ll just need to crash.

    But here’s the thing – creating a consistent, simple fall evening routine like this can make a huge difference over time.

    Evening Routine Aesthetic Photo

    It’s not about doing everything perfectly every night, but about building moments of calm and joy into your evenings, whenever you can.

    On the nights when the baby wakes up, or you’re running behind on work, I still try to squeeze in one small act of self-care – whether it’s 10 minutes with my back massager or even just a few pages of a good book.

    Because those small moments add up, and they matter.

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    Just like a solid evening routine helps you unwind and recharge, a morning routine sets the tone for the day. If you haven’t already, be sure to check out my post on creating the perfect fall morning routine to kickstart your day with the same cosy, intentional vibes.

    After all, balance is all about how we start and end our days.

    You Deserve This Time – So Take It

    So, there you have it – your ultimate guide to a cosy fall evening routine.

    The secret?

    Prioritising yourself.

    Because at the end of the day, you can’t pour from an empty cup, and autumn is the perfect season to slow down, get cosy, and recharge.

    Even when it feels impossible, or you’re tempted to just tackle that to-do list, remind yourself that you deserve a bit of time just for you because you do.

    By incorporating elements of organisation, skincare, relaxation, and a little creativity into your evening, you can create the best nighttime routine that fits your lifestyle.

    Now go run that bath, grab your book (or turn on Gilmore Girls), and take that ‘me time’ – you’ve earned it.

  • Habits

    Cosy Up Your Fall Morning Routine with These 13 Simple Habits

    Your fall morning routine can either be magical or… well, an excuse to stay under the duvet forever.

    But we’re not here for that kind of vibe.

    We’re here to embrace those crisp, cool mornings and turn them into opportunities to take care of ourselves, build habits that make us feel fab, and set the tone for the rest of the day.

    Whether you’re working on your morning self-care routine or just looking for fall morning routine ideas, these 13 simple habits will get you feeling cosy, energised, and ready to slay the day.

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    fall morning routine

    1. Open the windows for some fresh air

    Fall self-care starts with the simple things. One of the easiest ways to feel refreshed in the morning? Open those windows, no matter how chilly it is outside.

    Let the cool autumn breeze in, and suddenly, you’re feeling more awake and alive. It’s a super simple habit, but trust me, it works wonders.

    Pro Tip: Pair this with your first cup of coffee or tea and take a moment to breathe it all in.

    2. Sip on something warm (pumpkin spice, anyone?)

    No fall morning routine is complete without a warm drink in hand. Whether you’re team coffee or prefer a soothing tea, make it a little ritual.

    Take that moment for yourself to savour the warmth.

    And if you want to lean into the season? Pumpkin spice all the way!

    Pro Tip: Get creative with your morning drinks! Try something new like spiced chai or hot apple cider.

    fall morning routine pumpkin spice latte

    3. Stretch it out

    Look, your body’s been resting all night (hopefully), so give it a good stretch in the morning.

    Fall mornings can make you feel a bit sluggish, but a quick stretch is the perfect way to wake everything up.

    It doesn’t have to be a full-on yoga session—just a few gentle moves to get the blood flowing.

    Pro Tip: Stretch while the kettle’s boiling. It’s a small habit, but it makes a big difference.

    This season can be an invitation to slow down, and sometimes, all we need is a gentle nudge to prioritise ourselves. For a few autumn-inspired self-care ideas that are all about slowing down, check out this post.

    4. Brisk walks for the win

    If you’ve got time, take a brisk walk outside. Autumn mornings are perfect for a quick stroll.

    The air is crisp, the leaves are turning, and you’ll feel like you’ve already accomplished something.

    Plus, it’s a fab way to get your morning self-care in before the day gets too hectic.

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    5. Layer up for ultimate comfort

    Cosy mornings are all about the layers. Whether you’re staying home or heading out, wrap yourself up in your favourite jumper, scarf, or fluffy socks.

    The goal?

    To feel as comfy as possible while tackling your morning routine ideas.

    For the ultimate cosy fall morning, why not treat yourself to a little extra self-care? Check out my guide on building the perfect self-care Boo Basket—it’s the best way to add some spooky fun and relaxation to your autumn routine!

    6. Candles, because why not?

    Candles just scream cosy, don’t they? Light a couple of autumn-scented candles (like this one!) as part of your fall morning routine and instantly feel the vibe shift.

    You’ve gone from “meh” to magical with one flick of a lighter.

    Pro Tip: Go for scents like cinnamon, clove, or vanilla to really bring those autumn vibes into your space.

    autumn candle cosy

    7. Take a deep breath (and actually enjoy it)

    Fall self-care isn’t just about the external stuff. It’s about taking a moment to breathe and connect with yourself.

    Whether you’re into mindfulness or just need a minute of quiet, taking a deep breath of that crisp autumn air is like a reset button for your brain.

    Pro Tip: Stand by the window or step outside and take five slow, deep breaths. It’s the easiest way to centre yourself for the day ahead.

    8. Embrace slow mornings

    Here’s the thing: not every morning has to be rushed. Especially in the fall, it’s nice to have a routine that lets you slow down a bit.

    Whether it’s spending a few extra minutes in bed with your coffee or taking your time with breakfast, give yourself permission to slow it down.

    Pro Tip: Don’t guilt yourself for taking it easy. It’s part of your morning self-care routine!

    9. Journal it out

    Writing down your thoughts in the morning is a brilliant way to clear your head and get ready for the day.

    Whether it’s a quick brain dump or setting an intention for the day, journaling in the morning is like mental decluttering.

    Pro Tip: Keep it simple. You don’t need to write a novel—just jot down whatever comes to mind, even if it’s random.

    10. Create a cosy nook

    Every cosy fall morning routine needs a little sanctuary. Find a corner of your home that’s just for you—a spot where you can enjoy your coffee, read a book, or simply relax.

    Bonus points for fairy lights, fluffy blankets, and a good book.

    Pro Tip: Make your nook as inviting as possible. This is your space for unwinding and recharging.

    cosy fall book nook fall morning routine

    11. Set a mini goal for the morning

    Mornings are a great time to tick off a small win before the day gets hectic. It could be something as simple as drinking a glass of water, responding to an email, or reading a chapter of a book.

    Mini goals help you start the day feeling accomplished.

    Check out these Morning Journal Prompts to start your day with intention!

    12. Check in with yourself

    Self-care means more than just face masks (although, yes please). Take a moment in the morning to check in with yourself emotionally.

    How are you feeling? What do you need today?

    A quick check-in can make all the difference in how you approach your day.

    Pro Tip: Try asking yourself, “What do I need today?” and make that your focus.

    13. Laugh off the chaos

    Not every morning is going to go perfectly, and that’s totally fine. The key is to laugh off the little hiccups—whether it’s a coffee spill or a bad hair day.

    Laughing at the chaos will instantly turn your morning around and set a positive tone for the rest of the day.

    Before we conclude the perfect fall morning routine, why not embrace the full autumn magic? Check out my fall bucket list for cosy ideas like pumpkin picking and roasting chestnuts to make the most of the season!

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    Conclusion

    There you have it—13 simple habits to create the ultimate cosy fall morning routine. Whether you’re a morning person or not, these small tweaks will make your mornings feel a little more special and a lot more productive.

    So, what are you waiting for? Go grab that cup of coffee and make your mornings count!

  • Wellbeing

    Build a Self-Care Boo Basket for the Ultimate Autumn Relaxation

    Picture this: the wind is howling outside, the autumn leaves are swirling, and the day’s been… well, let’s just say it’s been “one of those.” But don’t fret! Tonight, we’re about to turn your evening into the ultimate cosy, autumnal bliss. And how, you ask? By creating a self-care boo basket that’ll have you feeling relaxed, pampered, and wrapped in warm fuzzies faster than you can say “pumpkin spice latte.”

    Now, you might be thinking, “But I’m too tired to even think about self-care, let alone put together a whole basket!” Well, guess what? I’ve got you covered.

    I’m here to give you the pep talk (and the plan) you didn’t know you needed. So, let’s get cracking and build that perfect boo basket for a cosy night in. You deserve it!

    1. Start with a Soft and Snuggly Base

    First things first, we need something to wrap ourselves up in. There’s no point in having a cosy night without something soft and snuggly, right? Whether it’s a fluffy blanket, a pair of fuzzy socks, or even your favourite old jumper that’s seen better days – get something that screams comfort.

    Autumn is all about the colours, so grab a blanket or scarf in those rich autumn hues – think burnt orange, mustard yellow, or a deep, cosy red. It’ll set the mood and make everything feel that little bit more seasonal (and Instagram-worthy, if that’s your thing!).

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    boo basket comfort items

    2. Aromatherapy to Set the Mood

    Right, now that you’re snug as a bug, it’s time to get the vibes just right.

    Candles!

    We’re talking autumn-scented candles that’ll make your whole place smell like a cinnamon-spiced hug. Pumpkin spice, vanilla, apple pie – whatever makes you feel like you’re living in an autumn Pinterest board, that’s what we want.

    If you’re not into candles, essential oils are your best friends. A few drops of lavender, eucalyptus, or clove in a diffuser will have you breathing in relaxation in no time.

    If you want to go full spa vibes, get one of those rollerball oils and dab it on your wrists or temples.

    Instant calm.

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    boo basket candles

    3. Indulge in Skincare and Pampering

    Time to pamper yourself like the queen you are!

    You know that face mask you’ve been saving for a special occasion? Well, tonight’s the night.

    Pop it on, grab your favourite hand cream, and maybe even treat yourself to a foot soak. This is your time – forget everything else.

    For a seasonal touch, look for autumn-themed skincare – like pumpkin enzyme masks or cinnamon-scented lotions.

    It’s like Halloween for your face, minus the trick-or-treaters. (Unless they’re at the door, in which case… maybe leave the mask until later!)

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    boo basket skin care

    4. Warm and Comforting Drinks

    What’s a cosy night in without a hot drink?

    Exactly – it’s basically illegal.

    Whether you’re into hot chocolate, spiced chai tea, or mulled cider, make sure you’ve got something warm and comforting to sip while you snuggle up.

    And don’t forget the mug – go for something cute or seasonal. Bonus points if it’s big enough to double as a small cauldron.

    Spice it up! Literally.

    Throw in a sprinkle of cinnamon, some mini marshmallows, or a dash of nutmeg. It’s like a hug in a mug, and we’re all about the autumn hugs tonight.

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    book basket hot drinks

    5. Snacks for the Ultimate Relaxation

    Right, we’ve got the drink sorted, but you can’t just sit there sipping away with no snacks, can you?

    Time to sort out the boo basket munchies. Whether it’s something indulgent like dark chocolate, caramel popcorn, or a cheeky packet of biscuits, make sure you’ve got something you can nibble on while you chill. (And no, I’m not talking about anything you have to cook. The whole point is to relax!)

    If you’re feeling fancy, make some autumn-themed treats ahead of time – think pumpkin bread, spiced cookies, or apple slices with caramel dip. If not, grab a chocolate bar and call it a win. We’re not judging here.

    My Picks/Recipes

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    6. Entertainment for a Cosy Night In

    Now, onto the fun stuff – entertainment!

    Grab that fantasy novel you’ve been meaning to read – the one that’s all about witches, magic, and autumnal vibes. Trust me, you won’t regret it.

    My Pick

    The Only Purple House in Town: It’s a feel-good story about a misfit woman who inherits a purple house and builds a community with a group of equally quirky characters. It’s all about finding your tribe and embracing your weirdness.

    If a book isn’t your thing, try a puzzle or colouring book. I love these Cocowyo spooky bold colouring books, and these are my go-to markers.

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    7. Mindfulness and Relaxation Tools

    Now, let’s talk about winding down properly.

    We’re not just about the outside pampering – we’re also here for the inside stuff. Pop a mindfulness app on your phone or grab a little journal to jot down your thoughts. Even 10 minutes of mindfulness or gratitude practice can help you feel a bit more grounded.

    Pro tip: If you really want to go the extra mile, add an eye pillow or a hot water bottle. You’ll feel like you’ve been to a spa, without the extortionate price tag.

    My Picks

    As the nights draw in and the air turns crisp, an evening routine can bring so much comfort and structure to our days. 🍂 If you’re craving a cosy evening refresh, I’ve shared my ultimate fall evening routine to help you unwind.

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    Conclusion

    So, there you have it, love – your perfect autumn self-care boo basket, designed to give you the ultimate cosy night in. Now, stop doubting whether you deserve this (spoiler: you do) and get your basket sorted. Grab the soft stuff, light the candles, slap on the face mask, and snuggle up with a hot drink. You’ve earned it.

    And trust me, after a night like this, you’ll wake up feeling like a new person – well, a person who’s at least 100% more relaxed, anyway. So go on, spoil yourself and make autumn your season of self-care. You deserve all the cosy goodness, mate.

    P.S. If you’re looking for more autumnal activities, check out my post for the ultimate autumn bucket list ideas!

    P.S.S. Before we wrap up, let’s keep it real for a second. I know some of these ideas might seem a bit extra, and if anything on this list feels out of your budget, don’t stress. Self-care isn’t about spending loads or buying new things. You can totally get creative with your boo basket by thrifting, repurposing items you already have, or even making some DIY bits. It’s all about taking care of you, not breaking the bank. So, please, don’t feel pressured to spend beyond your means – your well-being is what matters most, and that doesn’t come with a price tag. ✨

  • Wellbeing

    Fall Bucket List 2024: 31 Cosy Ideas for Autumn Magic

    Now, I know what you’re thinking—my blog is usually all about weight loss, nutrition, and fitness. And you’re right! I’m all about healthy habits, joyful movement, and keeping that mindset strong. But here’s the thing: autumn (or fall, depending on how you roll) is the perfect time to nurture your body and soul in ways that go beyond just workouts and meal plans.

    It’s a season to reset, get cosy, and actually enjoy the little things that make life beautiful.

    And you know what? That’s all part of living a healthy, balanced life.

    Whether you’re picking up some autumn fitness goals, looking for ways to de-stress, or just want to add some wholesome, feel-good activities to your life, this Fall Bucket List is the perfect blend of self-care, family fun, and seasonal magic.

    So, grab your favourite mug (pumpkin spice latte, anyone?), and let’s dive into this list of ideas you’ll want to add to your autumn plans.

    It’s not just about enjoying the season—it’s about giving yourself a break and making time for the things that matter, all while keeping your health and happiness at the forefront.

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    I should mention, that you’ll notice I’m switching between “autumn” and “fall” here because, well, I’m in the UK where we say autumn, but most of my lovely readers (yes, that’s you) are from the US. And let’s be real—SEO. Gotta keep those search engines happy, right?

    Family Fun & Cosy Days Out

    Autumn is the perfect time to gather the family for some seasonal adventures. Add these ideas to your Autumn Family Bucket List and start making memories that’ll last long after the leaves have fallen.

    • Visit a Pumpkin Patch: A classic autumn must! Head to your local pumpkin patch, pick your perfect pumpkins, and yes, take all the cheesy, cute family photos. It’s an ideal way to embrace those autumn vibes.
    • Chestnut Picking: One of my personal faves. There’s something magical about collecting chestnuts, roasting them at home, and then tucking in.
    • Family Halloween Trail: Get into the spooky spirit by finding a family-friendly Halloween trail near you. It’s a great laugh and a brilliant way to make some Halloween memories with the little ones. National Trust parks have a lot of Halloween events on, definitely worth investing in a membership!
    • Make Halloween Crafts: Add this to your list if you love getting creative! I’m making clay footprint ghosts with my baby this year. It’s fun, and messy, and it’s a keepsake to treasure.
    • Apple Picking: Perfect for a wholesome day out. Fill up a basket with apples and then whip up a pie or some crisps at home. The ideal autumn activity for foodies.
    • Bonfire Night: Sparklers, fireworks, and bundling up warm—it’s the epitome of autumn magic. Get this on your list if you want to enjoy an evening that’s equal parts cosy and exciting.
    • Autumn Photoshoot Trust me, you’ll want to do this! Get the family dressed up in their autumn best and snap some photos. You’ll cherish these cosy, cute moments forever.

    For the Grown-Ups: Solo & Couples Fall Ideas

    Autumn isn’t just about family fun—it’s also the perfect time for some solo moments or a cosy date with your partner. Add these to your Fall Bucket List for Adults and treat yourself to some well-deserved downtime.

    • Cosy Book Nook: Create a corner of your home dedicated to relaxation. Grab a blanket, light a candle, and curl up with a book.
    • Binge Autumn Comfort Shows: Add this to your list if you need some cosy TV time. Whether it’s Gilmore Girls, Buffy, or Twilight, you’ll feel those autumn vibes while snuggled under your favourite blanket.
    • Pumpkin Spice Baking Day: This one’s a must. Spend a day baking something indulgent—like pumpkin spiced cinnamon buns. The smell alone will make your house feel like an autumn wonderland.
    • Plan a Cosy Date Night: Make time for just you and your partner. Whether it’s a walk through autumn leaves, a night in with a movie, or sharing a bottle of wine, this one’s perfect for your Couple’s Fall Bucket List.
    • Take a Scenic Autumn Walk: Find a local park or trail, and spend an hour just soaking in the colours of autumn. It’s the perfect way to reset and enjoy the season in all its glory.
    • Go to a Farm Shop: If you’re after fresh autumn produce and some inspiration for cosy meals, add this to your list. It’s a relaxing way to spend a weekend morning and a perfect addition to your Fall Aesthetic Bucket List.

    Autumn isn’t just about relaxing—it’s also the perfect season to get outside and move! If you’re looking for fun ways to stay active this fall, head over to my post on How to Find Fun in Every Workout.

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    Fun Things To Do in Autumn: For Everyone!

    Whether you’re spending time with friends or looking for a solo adventure, these activities will help you make the most of the season. Add a few (or all) to your Fun Fall Bucket List:

    • Host a Bonfire Night at Home: There’s nothing quite like gathering around a fire with friends, roasting marshmallows, and enjoying hot chocolate. Make this a night to remember by adding it to your list.
    • Autumn-Themed Movie Marathon: Perfect for a rainy day. Pop on your favourite autumn movies—whether it’s Halloween classics or cosy flicks—and settle in for a relaxing night. Snacks mandatory!
    • Visit a Haunted House or Maze: If you love a bit of spookiness, this one’s for you. Add a haunted house or corn maze to your list for a thrilling autumn adventure.
    • Go Leaf Collecting & Scrapbooking: Collect the prettiest leaves you can find, press them, and create a scrapbook full of autumn memories. It’s a creative and calming activity that’s perfect for a quiet afternoon.
    • Make an Autumn Playlist: Curate a playlist filled with cosy, autumn vibes. Play it while you’re baking, reading, or just enjoying a cosy night in.
    • Try an Autumn-Themed Craft: Wreath-making, painting pumpkins, or knitting a chunky scarf—there are endless autumn crafts to try. Add one to your list and let your creativity run wild.
    • Bake Healthy Fall Recipes: For those trying to balance indulgence with health, why not try some healthy fall baking recipes? Whole-grain apple crisps or pumpkin muffins will satisfy those autumn cravings without the guilt.

    Check out my post on 10 Daily Habits to Improve Your Life. It’s all about easy, manageable habits that’ll make this autumn your most productive (and peaceful) yet

    Self-Care & Self-Improvement: Because You Deserve It

    Autumn is all about slowing down, resetting, and taking care of yourself. Add these self-care ideas to your Bucket List for Self-Improvement and prioritise your well-being this season:

    • Create a Hygge Fall List: Embrace all things cosy! Think fluffy socks, hot drinks, and pumpkin-scented candles. Autumn is the perfect time to dive headfirst into all things hygge.
    • Journaling: Take a moment to reflect on the year so far and set some goals for the rest of 2024. Journaling is a great way to reset, refocus, and find calm.
    • Set a New Fitness Goal: Autumn is a fantastic time to start a fresh routine. Whether it’s running, yoga, or something new, get active and feel good about yourself.
    • Go on a Solo Nature Walk: Clear your head and breathe in that crisp autumn air. A solo walk in nature is the perfect way to recharge and find peace.
    • Plan a Cosy Self-Care Day: Dedicate an entire day to you. Candles, face masks, a hot bath—whatever makes you feel good, do it!
    • Make an Autumn Vision Board: Add this to your list if you’re feeling inspired. Use the cosy autumn vibes to visualise your goals and dreams for the rest of the year.
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    Autumn Aesthetic Goals: Capture the Vibes!

    For the Instagrammers or anyone who loves a bit of seasonal style, these aesthetic ideas are a must-add to your Aesthetic Autumn To-Do List:

    • Decorate Your Home for Autumn: It’s time to bring out the pumpkins, fairy lights, and warm colours. Create a space that feels cosy and inviting—it’ll give you that autumn glow in no time.
    • Have a Seasonal Wardrobe Switch: Organise your wardrobe and bring those chunky knits, scarves, and boots to the front. Nothing says autumn like a wardrobe refresh.
    • Do a Cosy Autumn Photoshoot: Capture those perfect autumn moments—whether it’s a cup of tea, a walk in the park, or a cute outfit. This one’s for those who love a good autumn aesthetic!
    • Host an Autumn-Themed Dinner Party: Bring your friends together for an evening filled with seasonal dishes and maybe a pumpkin-spice dessert. It’s the perfect way to celebrate the season with good food and great company.
    • Make Your Own Autumn Candles: Why not try your hand at making your own autumn-scented candles? Cinnamon, clove, or pumpkin scents will make your home smell like a cosy autumn dream.
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    Wrapping It Up: Your 2024 Fall Checklist Awaits

    So, there you have it—your ultimate Fall Bucket List 2024 filled with ideas to add to your own list! Whether you’re making family memories, spending time solo, or embracing the autumn aesthetic, there’s something here for everyone.

    Whether you’re embracing cosy moments or planning fun family days out, the key to making the most of your fall bucket list is consistency. Those small, intentional moments add up! For more tips on staying consistent (and why it’s so important), have a look at my post on The Importance of Consistency: Small Habits Lead to Big Results.

    Don’t wait—get those wellies on, that pumpkin spice latte in hand, and start ticking off that list. 🍁

  • Habits

    How to Create Habits That Stick

    Starting new habits? Easy as pie. Want to create habits that stick though? That’s where things get interesting. We’ve all had that burst of energy, haven’t we? You know the one—when you’re all fired up, setting goals left, right, and centre, only to hit a wall two weeks later and think, “What was I doing again?”

    The thing is, habit-building is not about willpower. Nope. It’s about being smart and setting up small, no-fuss actions that fit right into your everyday life. Whether you’re giving yourself a good ol’ life overhaul or just trying to get your act together, it’s these teeny-tiny habits that make all the difference.

    If you’re fed up with the whole start-stop cycle and finally ready to stick to something, you’re in the right place. Let’s crack on with how to create habits that stick like superglue.

    This post is part of my ‘Change Your Life’ series, by the way. If you haven’t yet, check out “How to Get Your Life Together in 3 Simple Steps.” You won’t regret it.

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    Why Habits Are the Secret Sauce for Long-Term Success

    Habits aren’t just about ticking off a checklist. They’re the building blocks of real change.

    Want to turn your life around in the next year, or even the last few months of the year? Then your habits are where it all begins.

    Breaking a bad habit or picking up a good one—it’s those small, regular actions that pile up and lead to BIG results.

    For anyone feeling that itch, check out my post on reinventing yourself in your 30s for a fresh perspective.

    Step 1: Start Small (No, Smaller Than That) and Be Consistent

    The number one mistake I’ve made—and let’s be honest, we’ve all done it—is going too big, too fast. You think, “Right, I’m going to overhaul my life, sort out everything, all at once.”

    And guess what?

    It’s not sustainable.

    Here’s the secret: you don’t need to change everything overnight. Start small.

    Like, ridiculously small.

    Want to kick off a new morning routine? Forget about an hour-long workout or cooking a full-on breakfast from scratch.

    Just start by drinking a glass of water when you wake up or doing 5 minutes of stretching. I’m serious—5 minutes.

    And track it. I’m telling you, having a visual reminder, like a habit tracker, does wonders. It’s like giving your brain a little high-five every time you stick with it.

    Trust me, on days when you’re ready to sack it all off, that little visual progress? It keeps you going.

    Consistency is key! It’s not about grand gestures but small daily actions that lead to big changes. For more on why staying consistent is crucial, have a read through ‘The Importance of Consistency: Small Habits Lead to Big Results!‘

    Step 2: Connect the Dots—Habits and Bigger Goals

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    It’s so much easier to create habits that stick when you know why you’re doing something. Like, seriously. Your habits should feed into a bigger picture.

    Whether it’s your health, personal growth, or smashing it in your career, those small daily actions are the fuel.

    For me, it was getting my health in order. I had to connect the dots between my little habits and the bigger goal of feeling better in my skin, both physically and mentally.

    It wasn’t just about losing weight—it was about showing up for myself every single day.

    Those morning runs? They weren’t just about exercise; they were my time to clear my head and reset.

    When you link your daily habits to your bigger goals, it creates unstoppable momentum. Need help setting and smashing those goals? Take a look at ‘Setting Goals and Crushing Them: Proven Strategies!’.

    Step 3: Make Your Routine Yours

    You’ve got to make your routine fit you, not the other way around. We’ve all tried those cookie-cutter routines, right?

    They might work for a week, tops, before you’re back to square one.

    Here’s where I went wrong in the past—I’d plan these epic routines that looked great on paper but were a nightmare to actually stick to.

    So, I started simple. A daily checklist, some realistic goals, and boom—progress.

    Building routines that stick requires a little behavioural know-how. If you want to dive deeper into how habits form and how to create ones that last, check out my post ‘Mastering Habit Formation and Behaviour Change for Your Health’.

    Step 4: Track Your Progress Like a Hawk (And Celebrate!)

    Keeping a habit tracker has been one of the biggest game-changers for me. Whether it’s fitness, journaling, or even just taking time for myself, tracking gives me that little nudge to keep going.

    And don’t forget to celebrate. I used to skip this part—who has time, right? But celebrating small wins, even if it’s just a mini fist-pump moment, keeps you motivated.

    You don’t need to wait until you’ve hit the big goal to pat yourself on the back. Did you hit your habit for 10 days straight?

    Time to treat yourself!

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    Tracking your progress and staying consistent takes discipline, but it’s totally doable! For a little inspiration, check out my post on ‘Examples of Self-Discipline: How to Stay Consistent’.

    Step 5: Be Flexible, Not Perfect

    Here’s the thing—life’s messy. There’s no such thing as a perfect routine, and that’s fine.

    You’ve got to roll with the punches, make adjustments, and keep moving. If you skip a day, don’t throw your toys out the pram.

    Just pick up where you left off.

    Final Thoughts: Let’s Create Habits That Stick

    Building habits is the backbone of change, full stop. You want to change your life? It starts with those daily, seemingly small actions.

    Whether it’s a self-improvement challenge, getting fit, or just sorting out your routine, habits are where it all happens.

    So, let’s ditch the all-or-nothing mindset! Keep your habits small, doable, and consistent. You’ll be amazed at how far you can go when you stop overwhelming yourself and just keep going, one tiny step at a time.

    At the end of the day, consistency trumps motivation every time. If you’re looking for more ways to stay on track, my post ‘Consistency Over Motivation: 5 Ways to Stay on Track’ is a must-read.

    Further Resources

    Studies

    The importance of starting small and being consistent is supported by the idea that good habits, once established, can become automatic behaviours that don’t require constant willpower. This allows for long-term goal achievement by bypassing the need for daily motivation or self-control (Fiorella, 2020).

    Another study confirms that individuals with higher self-control don’t necessarily exert more effort but rely on established habits to achieve their goals, indicating that habits mediate between self-control and positive outcomes (Galla & Duckworth, 2015).

    Habits are a critical mechanism that allows people to regulate behaviour and achieve long-term goals without relying heavily on willpower. The formation of habits can support goal-directed behaviour, and their automaticity helps individuals maintain actions like healthy eating and regular exercise (Aarts & Dijksterhuis, 2000).

    Habit tracking and celebrating progress have been shown to reinforce goal adherence. Studies indicate that people who track their behaviour or create simple, manageable goals are more likely to maintain their habits, leading to improved outcomes in areas like weight loss or physical health (Cleo et al., 2017).

    Tailoring routines to individual preferences and making adjustments when life circumstances change has been highlighted in long-term health habit studies. In one example, participants emphasised that small, personalised changes were key to their success over time (Følling et al., 2022).